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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »@DonnerKebab good afternoon, how are you?
@Redemption hi redemption, i'm fine thanks, how are you?
@DonnerKebab glad you're fine, I'm ok just on my lunch break, hopefully I can atleast pop in to support chat for a bit. I'm just comparing myself to people a lot like the guy who runs the course is only 27 and I'm 23 going on to 24 not much younger. People are getting married, I saw someone who is getting married and I'm here single, no job, it's tough. I know we are all on our own journeys but I question whys mone so slow and beat myself up for it.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)
shannon_164 wrote: »@DonnerKebab your the only person to actually support me and take the time to support me
i don’t at all mean to be cheeky or nothing here but that feels quite unfair to say when i have replied to you several times in chats and on boards, i know often my replies to your threads on here don’t get acknowledged at all but i so often take the time to sit and read what you’re going through and reply to it. i know there are other people on here too that also take the time to support you…
@shannon_164 i'm sorry, i think she was just saying that to be supportive of me and kind to me, and didn't mean to upset you. We all know how supportive you've been Shannon. Please still find some supportive community, because you deserve it. i know what you mean now with certain edits being made to what's been said, but please find some place you can freely vent. Heck, create an anonymous email if needs be so we can email you to check in on you to see how your doing and so you can still vent without said restrictions from the platform. Just don't be alone, because your an amazing person. And i'm gonna miss you.
Re: Introducing Good News Friday!
I will be sure to give this a read, but i'm very much enjoying the sunshine today. I feel so much better when the sun is out
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!i’m sorry, i really cannot be around on this community anymore given all what’s happened - ive been debating on leaving for a very long time now but the other day was in fact the final straw. most of my input at the mix seems to be with invisible ink anyways sure so i won’t be that missed lol i don’t think ill ever return, too much has happened here and yeah, its been unfair & this time they have really ruined a big thing in life for me too unfortunately:( i think ill join the support chat today for the final time then that will be the end of me at the mix, forever…
@shannon_164 i'm so sorry it's been so hard for you, and that instead of getting help here, you got hurt and something major got ruined. Just don't be alone because i know what that does to people from personal experience. Sending you a virtual hug
aw thank you so much @DonnerKebab

Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!i’m sorry, i really cannot be around on this community anymore given all what’s happened - ive been debating on leaving for a very long time now but the other day was in fact the final straw. most of my input at the mix seems to be with invisible ink anyways sure so i won’t be that missed lol i don’t think ill ever return, too much has happened here and yeah, its been unfair & this time they have really ruined a big thing in life for me too unfortunately:(
@shannon_164 i mean like an anonymous email account, not on the mix or anything, but just so you can have somebody to vent to via email. I can leave you my email address if you want, just so you still have somebody to talk to and vent to anonymously with non of that input being ignored or edited. I see what you mean with certain platform restrictions and post edits.
i didn’t even realise that the mix went and edited half my posts on here lol, ofc it’s ok for other people to say shit about the mix and it be allowed to stay there because at the mix inconsistency is key - one rule for one person but a different rule for another - why he consistent when you can be the most inconsistent organisation to ever exist? lol. maybe i won’t bother showing my face one more time in a chat then.
it’s ok don’t worry, there’s no dm’s anymore so i wouldn’t want you sharing an email address on here as you never know who’s lurking on the web!!! thank you though, i appreciate you
@shannon_164 It's anonymous, literally just created it. Takes like 5 minutes, it's there if you ever want to just vent or ramble from an anonymous email account yourself 😂
But i really would love for you to be able to have one last support chat before you go. But i understand if not.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
@DonnerKebab good afternoon, how are you?
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!i’m sorry, i really cannot be around on this community anymore given all what’s happened - ive been debating on leaving for a very long time now but the other day was in fact the final straw. most of my input at the mix seems to be with invisible ink anyways sure so i won’t be that missed lol i don’t think ill ever return, too much has happened here and yeah, its been unfair & this time they have really ruined a big thing in life for me too unfortunately:( i think ill join the support chat today for the final time then that will be the end of me at the mix, forever…
@shannon_164 i'm so sorry it's been so hard for you, and that instead of getting help here, you got hurt and something major got ruined. Just don't be alone because i know what that does to people from personal experience. Sending you a virtual hug

Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!i’m sorry, i really cannot be around on this community anymore given all what’s happened - ive been debating on leaving for a very long time now but the other day was in fact the final straw. most of my input at the mix seems to be with invisible ink anyways sure so i won’t be that missed lol i don’t think ill ever return, too much has happened here and yeah, its been unfair & this time they have really ruined a big thing in life for me too unfortunately:(
@shannon_164 i mean like an anonymous email account, not on the mix or anything, but just so you can have somebody to vent to via email. I can leave you my email address if you want, just so you still have somebody to talk to and vent to anonymously with non of that input being ignored or edited. I see what you mean with certain platform restrictions and post edits.
i didn’t even realise that the mix went and edited half my posts on here lol, ofc it’s ok for other people to say shit about the mix and it be allowed to stay there because at the mix inconsistency is key - one rule for one person but a different rule for another - why be consistent when you can be the most inconsistent organisation to ever exist? lol. maybe i won’t bother showing my face one more time in a chat then.
it’s ok don’t worry, there’s no dm’s anymore so i wouldn’t want you sharing an email address on here as you never know who’s lurking on the web!!! thank you though, i appreciate you

Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!i’m sorry, i really cannot be around on this community anymore given all what’s happened - ive been debating on leaving for a very long time now but the other day was in fact the final straw. most of my input at the mix seems to be with invisible ink anyways sure so i won’t be that missed lol i don’t think ill ever return, too much has happened here and yeah, its been unfair & this time they have really ruined a big thing in life for me too unfortunately:(
@shannon_164 i mean like an anonymous email account, not on the mix or anything, but just so you can have somebody to vent to via email. I can leave you my email address if you want, just so you still have somebody to talk to and vent to anonymously with non of that input being ignored or edited. I see what you mean with certain platform restrictions and post edits.
Re: feeling mega uncomfy rn (potential tw?)
hi @Sian321
thanks for replying but i am no longer interested in engaging with the mix.
how do i get my account deleted?
thanks for replying but i am no longer interested in engaging with the mix.
how do i get my account deleted?