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Re: the housing market
Hiya @toffuna101 I also agree with what @Nathan and @independent_ said about the current prices of getting a mortgage and housing. Sadly the housing market has gone over rather pricey as of lately and is probably the worst it has been. I can see that this has been on your mind at the moment and I totally know the feeling of wanting to have your own space and to be fully independent. I'd say if your able to to talk to citizens advice as they can look at the housing system and I think for people with disabilities there's also a waiting list for it because they will tend to prioritise it.
At the moment for me I'm just waiting until the prices go down before I start looking at housing because I just find it too expensive at the moment.
Hopefully you can get some more support and guidance on this over time.
At the moment for me I'm just waiting until the prices go down before I start looking at housing because I just find it too expensive at the moment.
Hopefully you can get some more support and guidance on this over time.
Amy22
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 24.11.25
@PetiteQuark I can completely understand why reading about that would feel really scary and I am so sorry to hear about how worried you feel. From what I know, this disease is extremely rare, and I think using tap water for wudu is generally very safe in most places I hope you can feel even a small sense of reassurance knowing you’re doing your best and we are here to listen and support you.
Is it safe even in the uk? I saw a video from the daily mail or something of a doctor saying tuat tapwater in the uk isnt safe for this brain eating amoeba thing
My heads been hurting and i feel like throwing up im scared
Re: the housing market
DonnerKebab wrote: »@toffuna101 the housing market is really bad. Like horrifically bad. Like never been as extreme as it is today level of bad. Some waiting lists for social housing even last up to 10 years with how things are. And as for first time homebuyers, the average age sits at roughly 34, but that includes those with financial support from parents commonly termed the bank of mum and dad. Without that, it's even older, nearly reaching in the 40's which is insane.
What i'd advise is talk if you can to citizens advice about supported living spaces as they will be clued up on who to talk to and what it entails, or potentially about getting higher priority on the social housing waitlist if you have a disability. They can help advise you on the supported living spaces, and also about getting higher on the social housing waitlist. As for a mortgage, i have zero advice to give on that cause it's really bad right now. Bad enough that i'm leaving the country at the first chance i get to have a chance at home ownership in life.
It's good that your planning these things out early, but citizens advice is gonna be your best friend for anything your parents don't know, so it's worth talking with them. i'll drop you a link to citizens advice and their online advisor chat site.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/about-us/information/chat-with-an-adviser-online/
thanks for giving me the link. ill chat to an advisor when i get closer to 18 or when i finish college. and in terms of having a disability, i do have cerebral palsy. and i have mental health diagnoses too.
independent_ wrote: »It’s so good to see you planning this early. I’m 22 and only just put my name on the social housing list, though i gather it is somewhat easier to get up here in Scotland because there are simply more available, though it is still a long waiting list.
I second speaking with citizens advice. There is information out there about what gives you priority on the housing list, so it is worth checking to see if you tick any of those boxes. It turns out I ticked boxes I never even thought I would.
Supported living is not for me so I’ve never really looked into that, but it is also worth declaring any physical disabilities or mental health conditions you have if you apply for it or social housing, as it may give you more priority on the lists.
Edited to add that it is also worth noting that for a mortgage you need a sizeable deposit, so if you’re able to start saving now, it keeps your options more open.
thanks for the information.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 24.11.25
hey thankyou so much. im feeling better a little bit. hru?
Aw I'm glad to hear that, do take things easy if you need
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 24.11.25
hey thankyou so much
eylah
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Re: Can't take it.
This time of year my PTSD gets to its worst point. The flashbacks, the memories, it all just comes and takes over my thoughts. It gives me awful anxiety.
I have Worked so hard to be where I am now in life and having everything try to take it all away and set me back is awful and really messes with me. I constantly beat myself up about it.
I have Worked so hard to be where I am now in life and having everything try to take it all away and set me back is awful and really messes with me. I constantly beat myself up about it.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 24.11.25
im having another panic attack. 
eylah
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Re: I started sketching!
Thank you @Amy22, that's very kind. That sounds really cool, I find anatomy interesting as well though it sounds like your knowledge is way more in-depth which is very impressive. I definitely agree on drawing being therapeutic - I find when I get into doing something like drawing I kind of get tunnel vision and forget about everything else lol, although I'm autistic so maybe that's why hehe. If you ever draw or sketch again in the future I'd be super interested to see 



