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mock exam
so i have my first mock exam just before the october half-term break begins and i dont know how to feel about it honestly. its because we have two proper exams in january for business at my college and i need to get a distinction in both exams. if i get a pass or merit or fail my exams completely im gonna crash out because i need these grades to do a degree apprenticeship when i leave college. how do i ensure that i get high grades?
Idk how can I not wanna kill myself when I’m reminded I’ll never find love
At my workplace, I hate second window because I fear having to interact with men my age, especially when they joke about me being unattractive. I recognise a group of men who go off in a grey van and it’s been two times they’ve been rude to me about being unattractive.
How can I not wanna kill myself when this is what I have to look forward to in life. It’s not like some random man is gonna fall from the sky and save my life by proposing to be my bf.
How can I not wanna kill myself when this is what I have to look forward to in life. It’s not like some random man is gonna fall from the sky and save my life by proposing to be my bf.
Re: (Suicidal thoughts but no plan) I feel like shit
@Leyla yeah you’re correct. The main things that’s stopping me is the fact that it’ll likely ruin other people’s plans, which I feel bad about
Dating a much smaller man
Hi I'm not sure about how to start.
I've been dating this guy and he is 4ft 9. I'm 5ft 5. I normally have no issues dating people shorter than me but he is a lot shorter and generally smaller. I feel enormous next to him. I know this is not about his height or size, it's about my insecurities. I just don't know how to get over it.
I've been dating this guy and he is 4ft 9. I'm 5ft 5. I normally have no issues dating people shorter than me but he is a lot shorter and generally smaller. I feel enormous next to him. I know this is not about his height or size, it's about my insecurities. I just don't know how to get over it.
MaxB
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Another ramble before I go off my break
I genuinely feel dead inside right now. I feel empty. I feel like there’s a massive void inside me which has filled the entirety of my body. It feels as if I’m never gonna stop feeling like this. I don’t know what I want right now. I don’t know what will make me feel better right now
(Suicidal thoughts but no plan) I feel like shit
I feel like shit having to deal with my mental health on my own whilst having to live in a miserable household where no one is listening to each other and we’re stuck in a cycle of the same useless arguments.
I want to kill myself because I feel I have no hope. But I need to keep going.
I want to kill myself because I feel I have no hope. But I need to keep going.
A Film Called After Life
Hey gang,
Today I am thinking about a film which I watched when I was 17. It is a Japanese film called After Life. It looks at people in the After Life when they have just passed and they get the choice of reliving one memory for the rest of time, as if it is happening for the first time. You will not know you are reliving the memory and it will always be like living in the feeling of that moment forever.
This film is so lovely and featured real people who gave their own genuine answers based on their own lives. Some of the kids chose a big rollercoaster, an elderly woman chose her wedding vows, etc.
I want to ask you all what your moment would be! It's a super tricky question for me, so I wanna hear your ideas. It can be something sentimental, something exciting, something fun.
That's the thing, it could be anything!
And if anyone has seen the film or goes onto watch it, let me know what you think. I don't watch many films but this one really stuck with me.
Today I am thinking about a film which I watched when I was 17. It is a Japanese film called After Life. It looks at people in the After Life when they have just passed and they get the choice of reliving one memory for the rest of time, as if it is happening for the first time. You will not know you are reliving the memory and it will always be like living in the feeling of that moment forever.
This film is so lovely and featured real people who gave their own genuine answers based on their own lives. Some of the kids chose a big rollercoaster, an elderly woman chose her wedding vows, etc.
I want to ask you all what your moment would be! It's a super tricky question for me, so I wanna hear your ideas. It can be something sentimental, something exciting, something fun.
That's the thing, it could be anything!
And if anyone has seen the film or goes onto watch it, let me know what you think. I don't watch many films but this one really stuck with me.
Leyla
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