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sending you love and hugs.

I’m not sure what to say to help you with the job stuff because I haven’t reached that point in my own life yet but I wanted to say that life is not a race, everyone takes things at their own pace and I bet there are loads of people your age in your position.
And I don’t think you need to worry about eating junk food around your birthday, it’s a special occasion! I hope you have / had a good day

Big hugs @AnonymousToe. Maybe uni will be a fresh start for you and being away from some of what’s getting you down at home might suddenly motivate you? Fresh starts are really good for the mind. Idk buddy. I don’t want to put a positive spin on what you’re feeling right now because your feelings are valid and it’s okay to feel the way that you do. It can’t be easy that your parents are getting annoyed, it’s not your fault.

Whenever I’ve felt like that I’ve made small lists of what needs to be done and broken down tasks into smaller chunks, that way it feels more manageable and doesn’t drain your energy so much 💙

Hey Chloe,

Thanks so much for sharing how you've been feeling. It sounds like you're having some intense feelings right now, thank you for trusting us with them.

You're doing so well to keep moving forward when you're feeling this way, you're not alone there is a whole community here who've got your back.

We're here if you need to talk, and so are lots of places that can help; I'm going to post a few below, and if at any point you're feeling unsafe or like it's too much please reach out to one of the services below or contact 999. You're a wonderful person Chloe, and deserve the very best support.

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