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Re: Im just done.
I really hear this @Chloe234 and I'm so sorry you're struggling 🦆❤️
It sounds like you’re carrying a lot right now, and it’s completely understandable to feel drained and discouraged. College can be SO demanding (I remember feeling constantly burnt out!) and if you aren't getting the support you deserve and need, I can imagine it feels very overwhelming. Is there a specific thing about college which feels particularly overwhelming right now? Is there somebody you could talk to and get some support from? Feeling like you have no energy to do things you love is also VERY frustrating, especially when you are feeling down and all you want to do is something that makes you feel happy!
It's completely valid if you feel like you need some space from The Mix right now. We all go through different stages with our mental health, and sometimes we need different things at different times. However, even when it feels pointless, being part of a community might be helping you in ways you can't see right now. So if, after taking a break and processing your emotions, you feel like coming back, I want to remind you that this community will always be here for you 🌻
It sounds like you’re carrying a lot right now, and it’s completely understandable to feel drained and discouraged. College can be SO demanding (I remember feeling constantly burnt out!) and if you aren't getting the support you deserve and need, I can imagine it feels very overwhelming. Is there a specific thing about college which feels particularly overwhelming right now? Is there somebody you could talk to and get some support from? Feeling like you have no energy to do things you love is also VERY frustrating, especially when you are feeling down and all you want to do is something that makes you feel happy!
It's completely valid if you feel like you need some space from The Mix right now. We all go through different stages with our mental health, and sometimes we need different things at different times. However, even when it feels pointless, being part of a community might be helping you in ways you can't see right now. So if, after taking a break and processing your emotions, you feel like coming back, I want to remind you that this community will always be here for you 🌻
issie
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Re: Hey! 👋
OOOO I love the range of genres - i'd definitely say i'm more of a romance book girl myself (what can i say huh, i just love love)
although i'm definitely gonna try and broaden my range and venture into other book genres
although i'm definitely gonna try and broaden my range and venture into other book genres
Re: oil art. digital :)
I bet eylah that your super proud because I bet they took ages to do and finish as well. You really got a great skill for art 
. Also I may need to get this app actually because it looks so fun. I wonder what it is called?. Keep up the amazing work as usual x
. Also I may need to get this app actually because it looks so fun. I wonder what it is called?. Keep up the amazing work as usual x 
Amy22
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Re: my mum is seriously unwell again 😭.
That's understandable, I just wanted to let you know that you are being so incredibly brave and handling this situation the best that you can. We're all here for you at the moment and I can't imagine how stressful it is waiting on news about what's going on
I've added these organisations once again for you just in case you need some extra support right now
I've added these organisations once again for you just in case you need some extra support right now
Crisis Messenger (24/7) | text THEMIX to 85258
Samaritans (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org
Supportline (hours vary) | call 01708 765 200
Childline | call 0800 11 11
Samaritans (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org
Supportline (hours vary) | call 01708 765 200
Childline | call 0800 11 11
Re: Relationships
@TheNightmare Some advice I can give you is that your better to focus on doing things you enjoy and carrying on with your life and perhaps you will meet someone within those activities. That’s a great way of starting a relationship with a few things in common. Heartbreak is hard but there is a possibility of it, but you can only try your best in a relationship and give it your all. That is the only way that a relationship stands a chance of surviving. Some girls height might be important but to others it doesn’t it’s about the personality and how well you get along. I personally have no problems with height, being above average height compared to other girls, I am usually taller than the guys I am around. Hope this helps! And I hope you find someone that’s just right for you!
BlueIris
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Re: Back to uni anxiety
Hi @Millie2787, I've just started back at uni this week and I struggle with my anxiety too so I know how you feel. Have you got any good friends on your course? Or people who you could get to know? I find it really helps to surround yourself with a few good friends in these situations.
And as for the commuting. There's always going to be noisy people who don't obey the rules in so called quiet areas. Maybe you could think about investing in some noise cancelling headphones/earbuds? Or even just normal earphones with some nice music to drown out the noise. I find that really helpful for when I'm overwhelmed.
Anyway it sounds like you're doing great to be in your 3rd year of a nursing degree! That's so impressive. Try to change your thought processes from "what if I fail or fall" to "what if I succeed and become an amazing nurse". I hope your second week back is going ok.
"What if I fall? Oh but my darling, What if you fly?" - Erin Hanson
And as for the commuting. There's always going to be noisy people who don't obey the rules in so called quiet areas. Maybe you could think about investing in some noise cancelling headphones/earbuds? Or even just normal earphones with some nice music to drown out the noise. I find that really helpful for when I'm overwhelmed.
Anyway it sounds like you're doing great to be in your 3rd year of a nursing degree! That's so impressive. Try to change your thought processes from "what if I fail or fall" to "what if I succeed and become an amazing nurse". I hope your second week back is going ok.
"What if I fall? Oh but my darling, What if you fly?" - Erin Hanson
Re: Having a parent who hoards
@AnonymousToe I'm so sorry you experienced something really scary but I'm glad no one was hurt Just to say that you're totally valid to feel this way. Can I ask why you feel you shouldn't share it with anyone? Would you find it helpful to feel able to talk more about the situation?
I also definitely hear you when you say it doesn't feel right to be leaving right now. But hopefully a bit of space will be a positive for you, and you'll still be able to be there for your sister emotionally when and if she does need you. Sometimes we think physically being there is as important as emotional support, but I would guess that having you as someone who empathises and understands is an important thing that brings comfort, and that won't change.
I think it's often really common to maybe feel a sense of guilt when your own situation changes, so please try not beat yourself up about that as going to uni is a huge thing in itself to celebrate.
Just to say that you're totally valid to feel this way. Can I ask why you feel you shouldn't share it with anyone? Would you find it helpful to feel able to talk more about the situation?I also definitely hear you when you say it doesn't feel right to be leaving right now. But hopefully a bit of space will be a positive for you, and you'll still be able to be there for your sister emotionally when and if she does need you. Sometimes we think physically being there is as important as emotional support, but I would guess that having you as someone who empathises and understands is an important thing that brings comfort, and that won't change.
I think it's often really common to maybe feel a sense of guilt when your own situation changes, so please try not beat yourself up about that as going to uni is a huge thing in itself to celebrate.
EmLiz
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