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Re: August achievements, with a theme of altruism!
Thanks for checking up on us @kaii 😊
I hope u have a great month too ❤️
I hope u have a great month too ❤️
Re: Automatically subscribing to threads
Could also be that the person replying quoted a comment which tagged you. For some stupid reason it continues to tag the person and doesn't recognise that's it's a quote
Re: General chit chat
How was school today @toffuna101 ? I am good just monitoring the boards at the moment, and contemplating whether or not to eat a brownie I baked this morning!
you definitely should 😝
eylah
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Re: [OLD] We need you! Opt-in to transfer your discussion boards data
Just another update, we haven't received the final details yet for the email so this will likely happen tomorrow now. If you'd also like a DM to be sent to you, please do react to my message here and I can make sure to do that too 
Aoife
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Re: August achievements, with a theme of altruism!
@IsThisJustFantasy, I'm really glad to hear that you felt more relaxed when you went abroad - it really is nice to go on holiday and rest, I hope you're feeling better now! Where did you go? And it's absolutely lovely of you to give money to those in need - you as well as the receivers must have such a warm feeling inside because of this! 
@eylah, it's amazing that you've helped people in mental health distress, I'm so sure that they are so grateful for your help!
@ebyrne556, congrats on finishing your summer leadership program! It's great that you've been volunteering more and achieving a balance since it's so important to devote time to your health and to set boundaries! And wow, it's incredible that you got interviewed for 2 podcasts! What podcasts are they?
So so proud of everyone, I hope you're all having a great September so far!
@eylah, it's amazing that you've helped people in mental health distress, I'm so sure that they are so grateful for your help!
@ebyrne556, congrats on finishing your summer leadership program! It's great that you've been volunteering more and achieving a balance since it's so important to devote time to your health and to set boundaries! And wow, it's incredible that you got interviewed for 2 podcasts! What podcasts are they?
So so proud of everyone, I hope you're all having a great September so far!
kaii
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Re: im at breaking point.
you are worth a lot @eylah dont tell yourself that. your dad is really a dickhead and is ruining your self esteem.
Re: Toxic Relationship
very true Sinead - people deserve to feel happy and good about themselves in a relationship. Manipulation isn't acceptable and shouldn't be happening in relationships. As Sinead spoke about @pharmagirl27 you deserve to be around people who are supportive of you and respect your choices.
You should be able to make your own decisions - it's not fair that your bf has been making these for you. It's okay to put yourself first, and that might be what you need right now.
It's normal to be unsure about what to do next. I'd say that when making a decision you should do what makes you happy. I know that's probably going to be hard, but remember your feelings matter more than a perspective that thinks they don't.
You should be able to make your own decisions - it's not fair that your bf has been making these for you. It's okay to put yourself first, and that might be what you need right now.
It's normal to be unsure about what to do next. I'd say that when making a decision you should do what makes you happy. I know that's probably going to be hard, but remember your feelings matter more than a perspective that thinks they don't.