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oh woe is me... life is dark, so dark... so alone...
fucking hell they were probably trying to find your wallet :rolleyes:
i've never heard such utter bullshit in my entire life and i used to know Arby**
* - true
** - the most prolific liar in the history of lying ****s.
While I was walking the dog in the dark lastnight I was thinking about Rude_boyz and wondering about his predicament and if it were true and if we had all been a bit nasty.
Then I come back on here and the whole thing has got worse!
I do think we have to give him the benefit of the doubt, but it IS fair for anyone here to pick up on the inconsistencies of his story becuase if he is lying about such a terrible thing it does kind of piss on people who have really been through bad experiences.
Anyhow..IF he is lying he's doing it because he has serious problems anyway and so perhaps we should at least try to help him with those.
Every group needs a scapegoat and it only takes one person to voice a concern and everyone else follows. So perhaps it is time we all chilled, forgot about this thread (Which has been 'closed' several times by Rude_boyz) and waited to see if Rude-boyz would like to use the site like the rest of us...the debate, chat, make friends, get and take help.....
Finally - I have to say....When someone is bad at spelling (And I should know because I've struggled with it all my life) they tend to repeat the same spelling mistakes...however Rude_boyz, you seem to spell words a different way each time. Perhaps its just fast typing but the trick is that when you read other peoples posts, check out the way they spell because thats how you'll learn the right spellings!!
Why greg in a piss arse mood with ya lmao (he acting weird as useral) Brother hay who needs em
Yeh well . . . it pisses me off when people start disbelieving people for no reason.
And he's in a mood with me because I decided I didn't want to hate Scott and so I am friends with him again. Cos, like, my God, I'm not allowed to choose my own friends :rolleyes:
yea but im scared
to me, this behaviour just shows how he's lying.
http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50345
*cough*
:rolleyes:
hmmm, says 13:30 on my clock.....
its 11 hours out!!!!! (or one hour)
no, the clocks have fucked up. there were a few threads about it a couple of days ago.
I give you credit for still trying to prove that the boy is lying, to be honest I would've got bored a long time ago. 'Spose it shows you don't give up easily.
But...what has the above link got to do with anything?
you can tell because the ones he didnt do dont have spelling mistakes, and the ones he did do are even worse and have his spellings, tho im surprised every other word isnt in capital letters
I think we established he lied about the poems, but come on thats pretty low down on the lying scale.
I dont think people should be making judgements about whether he lied about being attacked though. Assuming it is true, how do you think itd make him feel having all these people verbally attacking him like this? Give the kid a break.
Its not just this boy whos exaggerated achievements.
and i suggest taking another trip to leeds, cause that boots is 2 floors. hardly 'tiny'.
What exaggerated achievements, she said she had a job in Boots, hardly an exaggeration
Oh I could, but you seem determined to lay into this boy all the time about petty irrelevancies so I thought Id return the favour.
I couldnt care less if hes lying or if youre lying or if its all just one big laugh, the attitude of superiority and not being able to receive what is given is what fucks me off. As Ive said all along.
Kaffrin, when you were raped/assaulted whatever what did you do about it? Were you not scared of going to the police? Were you not messed up? Did you not have someone who did not believe you? Weren't you afraid to tell your friends and family?
If the answer to all the above is no, then well done, because in a lot of cases, people answer yes.
Maybe you don't know how lucky you are. Because if he is telling the truth, you have messed up, big time.
Used your brain for that post didnt you?
She says she was raped. Its hardly a "lucky" occurrence, and not something youd think afterwards "Jeesh Im glad I wasnt mutilated too". And just as I criticised everyone for being harsh to rude boy, or whatever the fuck hes called, people who show no sympathy or empathy deserve criticism too.
Argh!
I sure did!:D
But seriously. I never actually said anything about her being lucky that she was raped. I think I didnt explain myself properly. What I was trying to get accross was perhaps Kaffrin dealt with it better than Rudeboy. She obviously did because she kept it bottle up for 13 years.
Im just saying kaffrin shouldnt assume Rudeboy is lying just because they had different reactions. No one should assume is lying. You just don't know. You can think he is lying, but you will never KNOW he is.
i am getting help thats what a shrink is for isnt it?
Im sorry to hear that, but the word I meant to use was differently, not better.
not neccessarily...talking about things like that constantly on anonymous message boards and talking about them constantly in real life isvery different, as i'm sure you'll appreciate. doesn't mean that they're not overdosing and cutting while they're talking, does it?
Other issues that are totally fucked up here:
1. Who the fuck cares what size bottle of calpol he supposedly drunk? That isn't the issue. People are picking at any tiny thing this kid says and having a go about it.
2. Would you all be acting this way if he was a female victim of attempted rape? I very much doubt it.
3. Who cares if he ripped off some poems? I remember when someone who shall remain nameless posted a story she claimed to be "hers" and it turned out she had just been busy copying and pasting. That same person was forgiven in a heartbeat and still posts a hell of a lot here at TheSite. Does anyone bring this up every single time she makes a freaking post? No.
Will you all just grow up? I am actually disgusted at the attitude of some people here. Leave it now, ok? Imagine how you would have felt if you told people about a traumatic event such as this and they ripped you to shreds.
I don't want to fall out with anyone in particular over this, because generally I like you all, so I am not aiming this at anyone in particular.
How many times do I have to tell you people? He is not lying ok? If you don't believe him at least believe me, who has been here a lot longer than him. He has been telling the truth. I know it because he told me to my face and it was obvious it was the truth. I have had to say this about 5 times now. Listen to me this time???