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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)

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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab i don’t know just stuck thinking about my past and whole life 😕
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab i don’t know just stuck thinking about my past and whole life 😕

    @River sorry i took a short while, i had to run and grab something before 12am (it was a donner kebab). I know what you mean. I was in the same position yesterday, and honestly, looking back, it hurts seeing it all laid out. I'm so sorry your going through this right now. I'm here if you want to talk about any of it. I'm here for you like you were for me friend. <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab im making a thread as I don’t want to trigger even in this thread 💕 plus it’s massive 😂
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    @River take all the time you need friend. I think you listened to me vent for at least 4 hours yesterday, i'm here for as long as you need too. <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    Sorry it’s taking long @DonnerKebab im only at the foster home part and I’ve already put so much 🥲
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    @River don't worry about how long it's taking. Just get everything of your chest and vent it all out. Like you let me do yesterday. Doesn't matter how long it takes, how much there is, I'm here for as long as you need. <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    It won’t let me post it @DonnerKebab
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    River wrote: »
    It won’t let me post it @DonnerKebab

    Try and post it in two parts river, the first half first, and then the second half in the comments after. it might work.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    I managed it thank you @DonnerKebab
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    @River i'll give it a read right now, and i'm proud of you. I know how hard it is to revisit dark stuff, and i'm proud of you for being brave enough to do it. <3
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    nahh childline clicked the exit button three minutes into my chat :skull: sure it couldve been an accident but its still annoying.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    this other childline counsellor keeps on repeating what i say :skull:
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    ok at least they sent me a message saying why they exited the chat.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,905 Master Poster
    im feeling rly sad
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,905 Master Poster
    cant cope 💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,245 Boards Champion
    hey @eylah - how are you? you matter sm & i care about you <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,905 Master Poster
    edited June 17
    im just so stressed i cant cope 💔😭 *im safe*
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    eylah wrote: »
    im just so stressed i cant cope 💔😭 *im safe*

    @eylah i'm here to vent to if you want. We all love you here, and want to give you all the support in the world friend <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    @toffuna101 i'm so sorry you had to deal with childline acting like that. It might just be a bad support line worker. You might get through to a good one soon. Don't give up on it.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    @shannon_164 just checking in on you to see how your doing friend
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 i'm so sorry you had to deal with childline acting like that. It might just be a bad support line worker. You might get through to a good one soon. Don't give up on it.

    (TW)
    i talked to childline a couple more times before deciding to call them because calling is way more efficient. they requested a welfare check on me but i doubt the police are gonna come because its been three hours since i ended the call with childline. the police havent showed up before when a welfare request was put because i texted shout once and told them that i had plans to end my life and they said that they were gonna call 101 and request a welfare check on me but the police never came. maybe they havent came both times because they think im ok. but clearly if i had intentions to harm myself or others surely they should come. anyways calling childline on the phone was better because we were able to cover more ground because sending a message each time on the 1-2-1 counsellor chats online usually takes a couple of minutes. @DonnerKebab
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
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    Post edited by River on
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    @River that's just unimaginable River. I'm so sorry. You did right calling emergency services on them and trying to get them help. I know how hard it is calling emergency services given your past with them, and i'm so sorry your being forced to have to go through all that ordeal again. I'm here to talk if you want friend.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    edited June 17
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    Post edited by River on
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 i'm so sorry you had to deal with childline acting like that. It might just be a bad support line worker. You might get through to a good one soon. Don't give up on it.

    (TW)
    i talked to childline a couple more times before deciding to call them because calling is way more efficient. they requested a welfare check on me but i doubt the police are gonna come because its been three hours since i ended the call with childline. the police havent showed up before when a welfare request was put because i texted shout once and told them that i had plans to end my life and they said that they were gonna call 101 and request a welfare check on me but the police never came. maybe they havent came both times because they think im ok. but clearly if i had intentions to harm myself or others surely they should come. anyways calling childline on the phone was better because we were able to cover more ground because sending a message each time on the 1-2-1 counsellor chats online usually takes a couple of minutes. @DonnerKebab

    @toffuna101 i know what you mean. You can talk more in 5 minutes than you can type in an hour. Could i just check that you're alright and safe right now? And yeah, police are notoriously useless nowadays, they can take weeks or not even come at all. They don't know the severity of your situation or anything the police don't, just a request to check in on you with a welfare check which may be why they didn't show up.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    edited June 17
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab not the first time tbh just never thought it would be this person…especially to laugh as well as they did it

    @River did they actually manage to end things? Were emergency services not able to intervene in time? Sorry for asking. Is it possible they could still be saved?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab not the first time tbh just never thought it would be this person…especially to laugh as well as they did it

    @River and i understand never having expected it. The ones that tend to be the most depressed tend to be the ones which seem the most normal on the surface. I'm so so sorry for you to have experienced that and to hear them laugh while doing it must have been traumatic for you. I'm so so sorry. I just want to give you a hug right now, but you'll have to settle for a virtual one instead <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    edited June 17
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    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    edited June 17
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    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 864 Part of The Mix Family
    @River i'm so sorry your dealing with so much triggering stuff given your own past struggles. It isn't fair for you to have to be put through this so much. That it's worded as "someone just attempted in front of me", just shows how much of it you've had to get used to and how normalised it's become. I'm so sorry. You did the right thing calling the police, calling there family and then blocking them altogether. They will get the help they need from the emergency services and there family. But you deserve to not have to struggle every few days at this point with that sort of stuff.
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