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@River you never know who's real and who isn't. Who's genuine and who's just playing games on people struggling. Friending people on dodgy sites as you said, i'm assuming anonymously, is where so many of these assholes will pretend to friend people then pretend to end themselves over chats for shits and giggles. It's truly sick the internet can be at times. Like online trolling. And these sorts of pricks prey on the lonely as well. Some of them are real, and some of them are not. It's best not to go on those site's at all for your own wellbeing River.
@eylah that's because so many assholes out there find it easier to dismiss people genuinely struggling with a few throwaway words, than to actually see and help those people struggling. They never experience it themselves, the struggle mentally, and so they can't imagine that others are going through it. But i promise you eylah, you are no attention seeker. You are somebody in genuine pain from everything that's happened for so long, and you deserve help. Fuck the people who said you're any of that. And you waste nobody's time, because you are a pleasure to talk to, and help so many others. You are a kind soul and you are worth all the time in the world. never forget that.
@River I'm so so sorry. With everything that happened over your life, it's cruel they've done this to you. You deserve so much better and i'm sorry you haven't had better than that. I know you're angry and so heartbroken right now, and you have every right to be. Sending a virtual hug
@River You are River. @eylah is too. There is good in the world still, it's just hard to see it after so long and so much hell.
it was 4 ppl who ganged up on me and was talking shit abt me in a snapchat gc and then was saying stuff abt my past and that i never actually wanted to leave this world apparently. im sat here crying i need a hug but have noone. thankyou so much though
These inbred rats strategically dressed up in clothes that we call people, don't get to determine what you felt, and what you experienced and what you wanted to do. Anybody in your shoes would have been even worse off. These pricks are nothing more than a bunch of bullies who target people as a group, going after those who are already feeling down. They are the lowest of the low eylah, and they do not deserve a moment of your time or kindness.
I'm sending 2 virtual hugs now. Not as good as an in person hug, but still with all the love and care of one
@River i know a little about what that's like. Not the exact same, but it's either pills or piss off from my GP pretty much about mental health. And about my other issue, they totally ignored it, and i got hung up on. I'm trying to change my GP now. Is that something you might consider doing, changing your GP, or GP practice? There's a chance you could get a doctor who genuinely cares and gives you the help you deserve.
the stuff they was saying abt me has broken my heart into pieces. i have therapy at 9:30 tmr and i need to sleep so i can wake up but i can’t fall asleep 💔💔 heads really racing but thankyou so much
Even though those pricks are worthless bullying assholes, there words will still sting. But please try and remember that they are just bullies. nothing more. And that the shit they came out with, was just cruelty to try and bring you down so they could have a bit of a laugh. Cruel people. You are so much bigger and better than they are, and not a word of what they said should be taken seriously. they and everything they say should just be laughed at. Cause that's all those bullies are. Absolute jokes.
It's all easier said than done drilling that into yourself, but i promise it's true. I'm so glad you have therapy tomorrow. If you want, i'm here to talk until you fall asleep friend.
Im sat silently crying b3cause I think ive hurt my boyfriend tonight's and its made me feel awful like we've just bee messaging about how he feels and that he's crying etc but now im sat here crying wanting to write him a huge paragraph apologising for my stupid thoughts and comments.
Why am I so stupid
Im fucking done with everything will be so much easier to leave all i do is hurt people or I get abandoned - so save people the hassel of abandoning me and just make an exit
* I'm safe * currently talking to shout 😒
i appreciate you so much
@eylah and you mean the world to me too. Sleep well, i want to hear about great things at therapy tomorrow when you get back from it. night
@Lottie5433 I'm so so sorry your going through this all right now. You are still a kind person, feeling distraught so much about accidentally possibly hurting somebody's feelings. that's a gentle soul right there.
But if he wanted to give up on you, he would have just blocked you and moved on. Instead, he's crying and opening up about how he feels to you. I'm useless at relationship advice, but for a man to open up and to be vulnerable to anybody, he loves and trusts that person. And i don't know what the comments were, but to be vulnerable in front of you and open up even after, from the sounds of it, he isn't giving up on you, or walking away, he's staying. I think that's one of the purest signs of love possible. You are not stupid Lottie, i don't know what the comments or thoughts are exactly, but no relationship is perfect. Nobody goes through one without slip ups or arguments or hasty comments. If you were to leave him, it would hurt him so much more than any comment by the sounds of it. Everything i've heard about him makes me think this guy is staying no matter what. And don't apologise for thoughts, you can't help having thoughts or what you think.
you are a kind soul Lottie, and you clearly love him. Open up to him as he is with you. Because by the sounds of it, you have an amazing boyfriend who wants to stick with you through everything. Help him, and let him help you. And i'm so glad your safe. I know it's a difficult time right now, but you can make it through this. I'm glad your talking to shout. They can probably offer better advice.
@AnonymousToe and sending one right back at you as well, so you don't forget you're just as important too friend
im safe but i dont know if im alright. i stayed up all night today because i was just occupied with bad thoughts. @DonnerKebab