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Advice on anti-depressants?

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Hey.
I had a psych assessment and the psychologist has put me on anti-depressants as a trial run. I'm really nervous to go on it so, what's your insight?
I had a psych assessment and the psychologist has put me on anti-depressants as a trial run. I'm really nervous to go on it so, what's your insight?
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I take an antidepressant called mirtazapine, ironically considering the time of this post it’s supposed to help me sleep lol. It’s the second one I tried, I tried one called sertraline last year but I had some pretty bad side effects with it so I came off it in the end.
Everyone is really different when it comes to side effects though, some people get none, some people get really minor ones and others react better to some antidepressants than others. I didn’t have many side effects at all with mirtazapine other than tiredness, which is expected with it being a sedative one.
It’s by no means a miracle cure but it’s something, I still struggle but I don’t find I get quite as low as I did before I was on them, and I have more energy for the basic things in life than I did.
I hope the one you’re taking helps you, but don’t be disheartened if you have to try a few before you find one that helps
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Hey! I can't sleep either but thank you so much!
That was really helpful!
I have another question: how has anti-depressants impacted your daily life, personally? That's if you want to answer.
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I think they’ve made functioning day to day easier, things like having the energy to get out of bed at a reasonable time, I think I get along with others a bit better too and things that used to really get to me don’t quite as much, and I’m a hell of a lot less anxious (but I’ve had counselling for that too). It’s not perfect, some days are still really hard, but it’s progress from where I was a few months ago when I was basically doing nothing and hiding all the time.
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I've been put on fluoxetine it's been 6 days and I'll be honest at the moment it's rough,
I will be honest with you they can make you tired, nauseous, unmotivated it can make you a bit worse for upto 2 weeks I think.
The people I know on them are doing great once they got past that time frame, you have to be willing to see it through, and do seek support in those around you while you are on them.
If one doesn't work there are others so don't be discouraged ❤️
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Thank you for sharing!
I hope things get better for you soon.
I'm seeing a lot of different types of antidepressants being mentioned here. Do they have different functions or...?
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These typically have less side effects than other forms.
Fluoxetine is common to be prescribed if you're first starting out but there are many others such as citalopram, sertraline, paroxetine etc. Mirtazapine is an atypical one.
You will almost always start on an SSRI and gauge it from there
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I'm on citalopram and I've been on it for almost 3 years. I honestly didn't feel any side effects apart from a decreased appetite and trouble settling into sleep. Overall my body tolerated it quite well and it was the first antidepressants that did obliterate my sex drive LOL ( if you know you know🤣)
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Thank you so much for sharing.
RIP your sex drive, man
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How are you feeling about the anti-depressants atm?
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I'm glad you're finding this discussion thread educational!
Seeing people's experience with anti-depressants eases my worries and I don't feel as nervous.
Thank you!
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My doctor put me on Fluoxetine when i was 16, i've since learned this is one of the most common "starter" anti-depressants. It worked for about a year for me, i kept increasing my doses under doctor supervision until i eventually reached the max and it was beginning to not work.
I was moved onto Venlafaxine, which made me very tired but it did the job for me for a while again. Again, increased doses until maxed out and got switched.
Then i was put on Duloxetine - its been the best for me and i'm on the max dose but i've been fine on it for over 3 years now. A year or two after getting to the max on duloxetine i was also put on Quietiapine which is an anti-psychotic.
Meds can be a pain in the sense that because there's so many out there, it can take a period of trial and error to find what helps you best. Just remember that it takes 14 days average for any medication to be integrated into your system and work properly - be aware of common side effects but don't go googling the extreme ones if you're prone to anxiety. Let your doctor know any side effects you experience, or any feelings you get within the first month.
Keep in mind that although meds can be great - I honestly wouldnt be alive without them - they aren't the ONLY way to treat depression. Its been proven by many professionals that the most effective treatment is a combination of meds and therapy.
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It's really good to see the progression! I'm glad things are working out for you!
I haven't started taking fluoxetine yet cos it clashes with another med I'm on. Taking them together will cause a side effect I'd rather not experience at all.
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Thank you so much for sharing!
And thank you in general!
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I hope you get used to the medication.
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The thought of taking medication can be really scary, but it really can help! I started taking citalopram at sixteen which worked for around six months and then wasn't as effective and then started taking sertraline, which has been working for me for over three years! Honestly, side effects can be an issue for the first couple of months - I had a lot of nausea, vivid dreaming and teeth grinding, but these were similar to the symptoms of anxiety I was already having so it really didn't make much of an impact on my life.
They usually take around six to eight weeks to start working so it can feel like they're not doing anything, but after a while you'll likely start to feel a little more stable and calm. Most people I know who've been on different types (SSRI's like sertraline and fluoxetine and other types like MAOI's and tricyclic which are less common) would say that emotions can feel muted, which is a really helpful thing when your mental health isn't the best. Even though they're not a cure, they're an amazing tool and so, so worth taking - it might take some chopping and changing but they'll help you to feel better, it's what they're designed for
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Thank you so much for sharing your experience!
Reading the side effects that you and other people have experienced eased my worries a bit because I'm experiencing something similar. Thought that I may the wrong decision at some point.
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Since this post, it wasn't until a little later that I started taking fluoxetine - 2nd June.
It's been a month and 6 days.
I'm happy to report that the side effects are (still are, by the way) one hell of a bitch to get through. Some side effects aren't as strong as it used to be but I have had certain impulses and thoughts resurfaced. It's been difficult trying to maintain that.
Thank you everyone for your insights and for sharing your experiences!
Please feel free to share your insight!
I have a follow-up question: what side effects have you experienced or currently experiencing and how do you cope with it?
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Tbh I’’m about 5 or 6 months in and mine don’t really work as well anymore, but that doesn’t happen to most people.
If you want to share, what side effects are you still struggling with? Things like changes in sleep, weight gain etc can unfortunately be long term side effects of many antidepressants.
I hope you start feeling fbetter soon
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@independent_ - Thank you so much for sharing! Fatigue is something I'm struggling to cope with. I've already had an erratic sleeping schedule post-fluoxetine so the fatigue doesn't really help.
@zaynab_5 - Damn, this journey threw you in a loop, huh?
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences! Man, you guys are veterans at this point.
The side effects I'm currently experiencing:
Trigger warning: mentions of self-harm
I have a feeling I may be missing something but yeah.
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After a trip to a mental hospital (DON’T GO, it was awful in my experience) I was put onto Trazedone which is an antidepressant that also makes me sleep. That went from like 100 to 200mg real quick. It doesn’t really help apart from sleep so I’ve been prescribed to take Sertraline alongside it.
Sometimes they can mix and match them, they change what they give each person based on side effects etc. It will be trial and error at first but you’ll find one that you feel good or normal on! I used to be worried about changing meds all the time, but life is short, if we need them to make the most out of it then I’ll deffo be doing that for as long as I need to. Hope you’re well :-)