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I'm Coming Out- A Poem π³οΈβπ

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This poem has been something that I have been thinking of writing for a long time and now I have decided that I am ready to come out and write this poem. Most of my experiences of trying to come out have been very negative and has caused me setbacks but it has given me even more determination to do this.
It is hard to put into words but I want to try
I feel ready to reveal what sexuality I am
It's time to come out and get it off my chest
This is me and I am trying my best
No it is not a phase and yes I am sure
I am a lesbian
And there should be no stigma about that
But some people find it funny to mock me for it
Just because I am lesbian doesn't mean I will flirt with every girl that I meet
Sometimes I want to keep quiet about it and I want people to respect that
I am a lesbian
It might not look that way to you
But it is what I am
It's time to stop hiding away
Today is the day
I will come out and say
I am a lesbian!
Relationships are not easy
But I feel happy with being me
My girlfriend cares a lot about me and she would be proud of me for coming out
It's time to open the closet and say it out loud
"There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
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"The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
"I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous
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I may make a little one too!
Sucks to hear about your previous experience but they don't define you hopefully you can make some more positive memories!
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I'm a lesbian as well and I know it can be overwhelming to come out to other people. I just want to echo what others have said that I'm so sorry to hear that you have had negative experiences before, in many cases, people do come around with time. If you ever want to talk about those experiences or need any further support, you can always speak to Switchboard who are an LGBT+ listening service https://switchboard.lgbt/
However, The Mix community are extremely caring, empathetic and non-judgemental people and everyone here will show you the love and support that you deserve. I hope that by writing this poem and seeing the positive responses that you will feel empowered to be your authentic self and not be defined by those who did not respond positively.
Please also remember that you are never alone, sending you lots of hugs
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Apologies, I have only just seen this.
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I loved it, and I send you a big hug!
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I have nominated you for post of the month itβs brilliant
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However, I also appreciate the courage it takes to come out and be who you are sometimes. Well done to anyone who has achieved this