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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    Starlight said:
    Is there anything you can do as a distraction? Like read a book, listen to music or watch something? 
    Where all here for you if you want to talk about anything that’s on your mind, but if you don’t that’s absolutely fine, take your time. Like everything, things can take take time especially after experiencing such things you’ve already talked about, But we’re here to hold your hand and get you through it all <3
    Thanks I do read and listen to the radio but find everything hard 
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    StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,436 Wise Owl
    It sounds very tough right now @lucyking200 but you will get through this! But take as much time as you need  <3 always here for you 
    “I got you, moonlight, you're my starlight
    I need you all night, come on, dance with me”

    * Shine like the star you are! *
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    Starlight said:
    It sounds very tough right now @lucyking200 but you will get through this! But take as much time as you need  <3 always here for you 
    Pm me please 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Hope you are doing as ok as you can be right now. We are here for you 💕
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    GreenTea said:
    Hope you are doing as ok as you can be right now. We are here for you 💕
    Not really need the support here 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Is there anything I can do to help?
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    GreenTea said:
    Is there anything I can do to help?
    Just talk to me and ask me questions please 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    im not really sure what you want me to ask?...
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    GreenTea said:
    im not really sure what you want me to ask?...
    Anything 
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Can I ask you about what sort of thins you like doing? Do you have any hobbies or anything? X
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    Hey have you thought about going to any grieving support? 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    Dandelion said:
    Can I ask you about what sort of thins you like doing? Do you have any hobbies or anything? X
    I enjoy reading and  listening to radio
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    Shaunie said:
    Hey have you thought about going to any grieving support? 
    Nope 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    lucyking200 said:
    Shaunie said:
    Hey have you thought about going to any grieving support? 
    Nope 
    Do you know why?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    lucyking200 said:
    Dandelion said:
    Can I ask you about what sort of thins you like doing? Do you have any hobbies or anything? X
    I enjoy reading and  listening to radio
    That’s cool what sort of things do you like reading
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    joyajoya Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    edited June 2020
    sending hugs lucy ^^ how its your favorite movie?
    everything always goes ^^
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Hope you are ok lucy
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    ems16ems16 Posts: 27 Boards Initiate
    sending virtual hugss<3
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    joya said:
    sending hugs lucy ^^ how its your favorite movie?
    Disney 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    If okay to ask. Was you close to your parents and sister?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    Shaunie said:
    If okay to ask. Was you close to your parents and sister?
    Very close 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    lucyking200 said:
    Shaunie said:
    If okay to ask. Was you close to your parents and sister?
    Very close 
    That's hard. When are their funerals going to be?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    Shaunie said:
    lucyking200 said:
    Shaunie said:
    If okay to ask. Was you close to your parents and sister?
    Very close 
    That's hard. When are their funerals going to be?
    I haven’t heard yet 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Hope you are doing ok lovrly
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    GreenTea said:
    Hope you are doing ok lovrly
    Not at all 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I'm sorry to hear that. If you need a distraction, do come join the chitchat thread
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    lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    GreenTea said:
    I'm sorry to hear that. If you need a distraction, do come join the chitchat thread 

    Where is that? 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Under anything goes..there's a thread called general chitchat
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