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I hacked OK Cupid to find my future fiancee
**helen**
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OK, so not me - but some mathematician dude :cool:
Was just talking to Jpick and Alex about this - not sure what to feel - is it romantic that he went to such lengths to reach his 'match' or is it just weird? :yuck:
Here's the article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2543750/How-mathematician-35-used-computer-algorithms-hack-OkCupid-future-fiancee-just-90-days.html
Was just talking to Jpick and Alex about this - not sure what to feel - is it romantic that he went to such lengths to reach his 'match' or is it just weird? :yuck:
Here's the article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2543750/How-mathematician-35-used-computer-algorithms-hack-OkCupid-future-fiancee-just-90-days.html
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No, that's just weird.. and I don't think they're 'soul-mates'. I'm shocked to see someone has gone to such lengths to meet someone. It's weird.
Dedication, right?
What's your take on 'soul-mates'?
I'm not sure if 'soul-mates' exist how most people see them. I shall try and explain.
I believe my 'soul-mate' is my ex, my first love. No, we didn't stay together so people might think 'well he isn't your soul-mate then', but to me it's not about that. I don't think I believe in the idea of just coming across 'the one', locking eyes, and instantly knowing that you're going to be together forever. It doesn't work like that.
I met my ex, I eventually fell in love with him, and he has changed my life in more ways than I ever thought was possible so for that he will always be a part of me, forever. I will never forget the qualities he bought out in me, I will never forget the things he taught me, I will never forget the positive changes he helped me to make. For this, he is and he always will be, my 'soul-mate'.
My take is in your first sentence, they don't exist.
I totally see where you're coming from but just wanted to ask about your last sentence. To me, the way you've worded it makes it sound like this guy had two options. One being he went to such lengths to meet someone, or the other option being he would have never met anyone he likes with similar qualities without going to such lengths (that's what i got from 'missing out'). Could you please elaborate on this?
Sorry, just intrigued by this thread
I guess not in the true sense. What's your take on the relationships element?
http://vbulletin.thesite.org/member.php/76401-Alexandra
awww ok
I meant that he has met someone he has fallen in love with, that he might otherwise not have.
Where have you got to with online dating?
Were there any that you would have liked to have a second date with?
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