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It's the changing name, or coming back, saying I used to be here, but then trying to be elusive and not saying who.
I got flamed by a certain person a while back for expressing exactly the same view after they said they were leaving. Maybe they got enough "oh don't go, you're awesome" replies as they're still here...
When I left, I posted a thread as I speak to a lot of people from here outside of here (facebook, text, msn etc.) so I wanted to give them a reason. I did have a very good reason for leaving, as some people will know, which has only just been sorted (hence my return)
I know a lot of people here probably don't like me, and that's fine, I know I can be a bit of a bitch at times... but yeah, sorry if I annoyed ya'll with returning.
I know, but thought I'd apologize to those I pissed off... I know there were quite a few.
i made it pretty clear who i was referring to, by linking to the exact threads which had annoyed me. Im not being underhand.
Its not bitchy to say that someone has done something that pisses you off is it ffs.
I already linked to the ones i was specifically talking about on this occasion.
The Hi, im back, i used to be here before - who were you then? - oh i shouldnt have said i was here before, id rather not say.
WELL FUCK YOU THEN
Also on the jakeo thread, people who werent even on the site when he died, saying how much they miss him
G shouldn't have posted in that thread if he wanted to keep his oh-so-original and not at all obvious username a secret.
....PM me >.>
No more revealings please :no:
Of course it's different if it's a troll, we deal with those on a case by case basis and hope that you guys will PM one of us or report posts if you're suspicious.
As **helen** said, if you have an issue with a specific person, there's no harm in just dropping them a polite PM to let them know you think they should announce who they were before, but ultimately it's up to them.
I do agree with the pointless replys from mods as well. I've had it too. Like one time I asked about a specific contraceptive and all the mod replied with was some sort of questionaire about which one to choose... not related at all!
errr yeah, i just said what triggered it off
It doesn't annoy me as such, but I find it a bit odd. If you want to re-invent yourself, that's fine, I suppose, but to then reference back to prior events / actions that your other nick did, is nonsensical.
So if you are going to do it, at least be consistent with your timelines :d
P.S I don't think this thread in any way "nasty". One should be able to say how the feel without backlash.
I don't think you were nasty in the thread at all. I've changed my nick because my old username was effectively banned when I left, which means I couldn't contact anyone at TheSite to get it unbanned (they've hidden all their emails and you can't use the PM system or vbb email system with a banned account). People who repeatedly come back going on about how they were here before, but they're not going to tell anyone, are asshats.
Either come back incognito or don't, I don't rightly care which you decide, just don't play games about it. More than anything, it just ain't that interesting.
But yeah, I see where you guys are coming from.
(edit: I didn't leave and then come back though, so possibly not completely related to this thread)
i don't care if they don't tell the rest of you... but i have the right to know :P (joking)
I was thinking about PMing you that you shouldn't do it, specifically for that reason.