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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok im very srry to make waste your time on a size issue but i'm currently dating an amazing girl and we have talked about having sex well she kinda is pushing it but i keep getting out of it because i'm worried that my penis is to small (7 inches erect) and i'm not sure what that scales on the penis scale but it doesn't look big to me?but then again I'm a guy and haven't looked at a bunch of penises and im not sure whats big/small. I dont want to get pleasured and not give equal pleasure back to he that just gets to me. please post back the average size or about the sizes u have or seen

Thank you
-concerned male :confused:

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its fine, the kind of girl who would refuse to have sex with you or break up with you over the size of your penis (unless its too big and hurts her) is not worth sticking it in anyway.

    It is something every guy worries about i think. Just remember girls can come from fingers, and your cock is bigger than a finger! also remember that a bad work man blames his tools ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zombe888 wrote: »
    ok im very srry to make waste your time on a size issue but i'm currently dating an amazing girl and we have talked about having sex well she kinda is pushing it but i keep getting out of it because i'm worried that my penis is to small (7 inches erect) and i'm not sure what that scales on the penis scale but it doesn't look big to me?but then again I'm a guy and haven't looked at a bunch of penises and im not sure whats big/small. I dont want to get pleasured and not give equal pleasure back to he that just gets to me. please post back the average size or about the sizes u have or seen

    Thank you
    -concerned male :confused:

    7" is above average (5.5" to 6.5" is around average) so you have nothing to worry about.

    However, are you really ready for sex? If you think that a girl who loves you will be affected by the size of your penis, then it shows a level of immaturity on your part. Perhaps it would be better to wait and learn to love yourself and accept those parts of you which you cannot change? That way, you can have sex without any feelings of self-conciousness and have a better experience.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    7inches is above average. dont worry
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh my, once in a while I thought there might be a real man with a too small penis and not always those, "hey guis, I can wrap my penis around my waist, how 'bout you lol?!" and then it's 7 inches long.

    It's like the old poker cliché in the movies. Oh, can I play too? How does this game work? Oh I have four kings? Is this good? WHAT I WON AGAIN?

    the tool is fine, just learn to work with it too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thats not small at all it above average it the motion in the ocean that what i say i been with guys who vary in size my partner is 9+half erect i been lad who 6erect stil did it for me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    7 inches isn't bad whatsoever.

    My boyfriend is so blessed though it scares me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    size

    it not the size that matters but the way that you use it good luck
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Actually, size can matter. What would anyone do with a 2" micropenis, for instance? The point is that this OP is worrying about nothing.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    Actually, size can matter. What would anyone do with a 2" micropenis, for instance? The point is that this OP is worrying about nothing.

    there is an actual condition names "micropenis" and I read a ask/tell thread about a guy who has it. He said he had a number of girlfriends and he could still make most come...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh I know about the condition, which is why I mentioned it. And yes, he probably can make them cum ... but cumming isn't the only satisfaction you get from sex, but is the crescendo (so to speak). I suspect that most women would be sexually disappointed in a 2" penis, regardless whether they cum or not.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know plenty of girls who say they would be disappointed if a guy had a small penis. I don't think they're shallow (no pun intended :p).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    consider yourself lucky

    You can't worry about your size. I know for a fact that I am below average in size but if you go down and really get into it and have a great time then it really won't matter how big you are. My wife cums almost every time we have sex (which isn't often enough) in only a couple of minutes. I really believe you have to get that thing worked up nice and hot and when you put it in it will be like heaven for her. Now, there are some girls that only want really big penises, but you can't do anything about that. If you are on the dating scene and you come across one of these ladies, I seriously doubt that they will not have sex with you if you guys are in the full swing of things and the moment is hot. She might not come back for seconds so you just have to enjoy it while you can. But even if she doesn't remember you for your size, make sure she remembers you for your oral skills. Get into it brother.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thank you all for your feedback i feel reassured now just kinda weird how when u look at it yourself it looks small but when u like measure it and then look at the what u measured it with it looks bigger or im just weird but thanks again guys and women.
    Thank you(again)
    -non-concerned male :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    However, are you really ready for sex? If you think that a girl who loves you will be affected by the size of your penis, then it shows a level of immaturity on your part.[/QUOTE]

    no, i dont think it will make her love me any less but i just want her to enjoy it to. im just weird like that.:love:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    crap double post :( my bad
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can understand your worries but a nice girl never judges, and surely you don't want a girl just to like you because of whats in your pants?

    7inch's is completely enough to satisfy a girl, but in my books thickness is what matters most.. but even if you had the smallest of willies you shouldn't worry, if you have enough passion in the moment it can make the sex so much better.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    am 7 inches and hav no complaints wots so ever especially off me gf but as a lad the fort does run threw ya head wot can a say its just 1 ov them things 3 2 1 rutz is gone
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can understand your worries but a nice girl never judges, and surely you don't want a girl just to like you because of whats in your pants?

    7inch's is completely enough to satisfy a girl, but in my books thickness is what matters most.. but even if you had the smallest of willies you shouldn't worry, if you have enough passion in the moment it can make the sex so much better.

    Lots of girls I've spoken to have joked aout their ex boyfriend's cocks, so maybe that makes guys extra aware of it "Oh haha his willy was so small it was ridiculous". Like if you were talking to some guys and they were whining about 'fat chicks' you would probably feel more sensitive about your weight... I guess it's the way we feel we are viewed by others rather than the reality of what we have and whether it makes us / our partner happy.

    The reality is that unless you have an issue, it's designed to do a job and most humans are similar. If your partner whines about your body, then tell them to f*ck off.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    randyrutz wrote: »
    am 7 inches and hav no complaints wots so ever especially off me gf but as a lad the fort does run threw ya head wot can a say its just 1 ov them things 3 2 1 rutz is gone

    You'll never get a proper job with writing like that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    You'll never get a proper job with writing like that.
    am a that bad?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    am 2 used 2 txting SORRY
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    randyrutz wrote: »
    am a that bad?
    lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    randyrutz wrote: »
    am 2 used 2 txting SORRY

    That's okay. Fortunately, as Jim says, there is no word limit on here and it does make for easier reading if it's typed out properly. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zombe888 wrote: »
    ...i'm worried that my penis is to small (7 inches erect)...
    Believe me, unless your girlfriend used to date a porn star, that is nothing to be worried about whatsoever!

    *waits for Teagan to come along and make a joke at my expense. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I remember a poster said whe she wouldnt' do anybody with less than 10 inches or so.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    Lots of girls I've spoken to have joked aout their ex boyfriend's cocks, so maybe that makes guys extra aware of it "Oh haha his willy was so small it was ridiculous". Like if you were talking to some guys and they were whining about 'fat chicks' you would probably feel more sensitive about your weight... I guess it's the way we feel we are viewed by others rather than the reality of what we have and whether it makes us / our partner happy.

    The reality is that unless you have an issue, it's designed to do a job and most humans are similar. If your partner whines about your body, then tell them to f*ck off.

    The kind of girls who are immature to talk about guys penises behind their backs and mock.. are idiots. :yeees:

    They wouldn't like it one bit if they said oh yeah she was like a sack of spuds or she had no tits... they'd get whats coming to them.

    Anyway each to their own, I don't know anyone personally who's ever re-thought about a guy they were dating just because of his size...there's more to a relationship than that, and although at the end of the day we're meant to reproduce... its not the size that counts in that department.

    Plus... not being funny, but a lot of girls get more satisfaction out of clit stimulation, oral and other turn on's in the bedroom, as well as penetration... so if you did have a small penis its not your only hope.

    =]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    7 inches will be fiiiine :hyper:

    lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    make sure you check the date of theads before posting a reply. No one likes a dead thead being brought up again....
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