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ok im very srry to make waste your time on a size issue but i'm currently dating an amazing girl and we have talked about having sex well she kinda is pushing it but i keep getting out of it because i'm worried that my penis is to small (7 inches erect) and i'm not sure what that scales on the penis scale but it doesn't look big to me?but then again I'm a guy and haven't looked at a bunch of penises and im not sure whats big/small. I dont want to get pleasured and not give equal pleasure back to he that just gets to me. please post back the average size or about the sizes u have or seen
Thank you
-concerned male
Thank you
-concerned male
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It is something every guy worries about i think. Just remember girls can come from fingers, and your cock is bigger than a finger! also remember that a bad work man blames his tools
7" is above average (5.5" to 6.5" is around average) so you have nothing to worry about.
However, are you really ready for sex? If you think that a girl who loves you will be affected by the size of your penis, then it shows a level of immaturity on your part. Perhaps it would be better to wait and learn to love yourself and accept those parts of you which you cannot change? That way, you can have sex without any feelings of self-conciousness and have a better experience.
It's like the old poker cliché in the movies. Oh, can I play too? How does this game work? Oh I have four kings? Is this good? WHAT I WON AGAIN?
the tool is fine, just learn to work with it too.
My boyfriend is so blessed though it scares me.
it not the size that matters but the way that you use it good luck
there is an actual condition names "micropenis" and I read a ask/tell thread about a guy who has it. He said he had a number of girlfriends and he could still make most come...
You can't worry about your size. I know for a fact that I am below average in size but if you go down and really get into it and have a great time then it really won't matter how big you are. My wife cums almost every time we have sex (which isn't often enough) in only a couple of minutes. I really believe you have to get that thing worked up nice and hot and when you put it in it will be like heaven for her. Now, there are some girls that only want really big penises, but you can't do anything about that. If you are on the dating scene and you come across one of these ladies, I seriously doubt that they will not have sex with you if you guys are in the full swing of things and the moment is hot. She might not come back for seconds so you just have to enjoy it while you can. But even if she doesn't remember you for your size, make sure she remembers you for your oral skills. Get into it brother.
Thank you(again)
-non-concerned male
no, i dont think it will make her love me any less but i just want her to enjoy it to. im just weird like that.
7inch's is completely enough to satisfy a girl, but in my books thickness is what matters most.. but even if you had the smallest of willies you shouldn't worry, if you have enough passion in the moment it can make the sex so much better.
Lots of girls I've spoken to have joked aout their ex boyfriend's cocks, so maybe that makes guys extra aware of it "Oh haha his willy was so small it was ridiculous". Like if you were talking to some guys and they were whining about 'fat chicks' you would probably feel more sensitive about your weight... I guess it's the way we feel we are viewed by others rather than the reality of what we have and whether it makes us / our partner happy.
The reality is that unless you have an issue, it's designed to do a job and most humans are similar. If your partner whines about your body, then tell them to f*ck off.
You'll never get a proper job with writing like that.
That's okay. Fortunately, as Jim says, there is no word limit on here and it does make for easier reading if it's typed out properly.
*waits for Teagan to come along and make a joke at my expense.
The kind of girls who are immature to talk about guys penises behind their backs and mock.. are idiots. :yeees:
They wouldn't like it one bit if they said oh yeah she was like a sack of spuds or she had no tits... they'd get whats coming to them.
Anyway each to their own, I don't know anyone personally who's ever re-thought about a guy they were dating just because of his size...there's more to a relationship than that, and although at the end of the day we're meant to reproduce... its not the size that counts in that department.
Plus... not being funny, but a lot of girls get more satisfaction out of clit stimulation, oral and other turn on's in the bedroom, as well as penetration... so if you did have a small penis its not your only hope.
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lol