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My bestfriend told me today that some wankstain that she had been seeing (and recently finished with) sent her a text saying that he had sex with her whilst she was asleep..not only that..unprotected sex. Had to give her a big hug today. She was scared as fuck, she had a period since but I went and got her a pregnancy test so she could put her mind at ease. Luckily it came back negative. If I ever see him I'm going to kick him in the face.
There'd be no point, she'd never get a conviction. Stove his face in from me:)
I half expect that he's lying just to scare the crap out of her, though.
edit: that's what I said to my friend. Either way he's pretty derranged.
After that though, sleepy sex is fun. :yes:
And newsflash: OBVIOUSLY since the boy gave up after a while he was just trying to wake her up; most likely knew she was half awake and presumed she just wasnt in the mood. seriously, no girl can be completely asleep with a guy pumpin on top of her. FFS get over it.
So anyone I will finish by saying I think a decent analogy as to the mindset and why old love got her first orgasm- Anyone who has a clue about women knows that the key to getin the O, spesh if the girl finds it really hard, is RELAXATION. when are you more relaxed then when you're lying there doing nothing? so of course its a good thing. Ive been with my grlfriend for a couple of months and I'm the first and only person who's ever made her come (we're both bi) and we made a real mission of it when i first found out. I told her wat I always say- the best way to get there is to just relax while I go down and pretend like ur getting a massage. which coincidently is about as close to being asleep as you can get. so even tho ive never been there done that, i dont see anything wrong with it watsoever. and as for "he should talk about it before touching her in her sleep". Are you a frickin principal? i mean communication is important but you dont need to be a d.ick about it. as if anyone has ever actually asked "hey babe i know we've been going out for ages but I wana try turning you on while ur sleeping, do i have your permission?" who knows, maybe this guy was even completely wise to her fakin it and in turn was pretending NOT to know. now thats reverse psychology. shove that up your pulpit
ETA: that was in reply to but I thought he was talking about this.
all these people saying "its good when one person gets horny n wakes the other up"
sure it is, it`s nice feeling a hard-on pressed against u to wake ya up but the fact of it is, she didnt wake up (as far as he was concerned)
so he actually pentrated without consent, and carried on, and it seems slightly dodgy to me
fair play to them both now, she has let him know that she likes is and is fine with it, but that first time was on the borderline IMO
I totally agree with you! :thumb:
I actually had fantasies about this, but never happened.
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