sex while sleeping?!
My boyfriend has sex with me when he thinks I'm asleep.
He works nights so I'm usually in bed when he gets in. When he comes up to bed he'll get in and cuddle up to me from behind (me with my back to him). He'll usually get an erection and start doing the whole foreplay thing - kissing my neck or back lightly, fingering me etc. One night I was very tired (could barely keep my eyes open) so I decided to just pretend to be asleep. He carried on touching me, then pulled my knickers down and entered me!
He had sex with me, while I kept up the pretence of being asleep (not sure why I did that, I think it was to see how long he'd go for!), not moving or anything. After a bit he turned me over so I was on my front, spread my legs a bit wider then carried on thrusting into me. After about 10 minutes (I guess) and I hadn'ty responded to him whispering in my ear to wake up and give him a kiss, he gave up and went over to his side of the bed.
I think I fell asleep for real after that, then when I woke up I went to cuddle him, he turned over and started to kiss me...and I mentioned the sex while asleep thing, saying I'd woken up just before he got off me. He asked if I was upset by it or he'd thought he'd raped me, and I said no. Then he asked if I minded, and I said I didn't.
He doesn't wait for me to go to sleep before he has sex with me now or anything like that, but occasionally I'll pretend to be asleep and he'll have sex. Then I'll pretend to wake up and start moving my hips and having sex like normal. He doesn't know I'm pretending to be asleep obvioously, but is this a really weird thing to be doing?! It feels great...concentrating on staying still and not showing any signs of arousal seems to make the sensation of him inside me much more pleasurable, and he even gave me an orgasm one time! I've NEVER had an orgasm during sex, before or since (with anyone).
So what are everyone's opinions? Weird, or a harmless role-playing kind of thing?