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Last year when I was scared of going to the doctors you said this to me:
"Right, miss. Pull yourself together...
Second thing: go to the doctors. As soon as is humanly possibly, you're going to go to the doctors and you're going to tell them how you're feeling and you're going to ask for help. No more sitting around feeling sorry for yourself (and that's not a dig at you, I used to do it as well). If you don't go, they can't help you. Just telling them will make you feel infinitely better, trust me...
And if you don't listen to my advice, woman, you will have me ranting at you over and over again.
Love ♥
Franki xx"
This is what you said to me late last year when I felt as you put it, "emo". What did you advise me to do? You advised me to go to the doctors despite being scared and you know what? At the time, it was the best thing I did. I felt so much better afterwards and as you have said yourself (you said it to me) you will feel so much better afterwards so you have no need to be scared. They are there to help.
You've taken a brilliant step by booking a doctors appointment. Whether or not the boy likes the emo Franki or not shouldn't be relevant here. You have got to look after number 1 darlin, which is you.
As for your essays, don't worry too much about them darling. It was a MOCK. I always do better in the real thing. Don't let this result stop you from getting the grade you are capable of. We all make mistakes. You have time to put the effort into the real thing.
Please chin up hunni xxx
PS- Sorry none of this helps. I'm just worried about you.
Of course it helps. You've managed to say exactly what I wanted to say and a hell of a lot more.
Stace - I remember saying that to you...haha. I know I'll feel better after I go, but I'm just scared that it's not gonna work again. Like...seriously...this will be the *counts on fingers*...5th doctor I'll have seen about it. That scares me, because none of them have been able to help (granted, the last one I only saw once because the other was all booked up, and I met boy really soon after that, so I never went back to him...but meh).
James - for you.
I don't know what else to say really but people do care, honest.
Bollocks.
Good job I'm going to the doctor on Tuesday, really.
It's good that you're going to the Dr's though hun. Take care. x
Boooooo.
Oooooooooops.
Anyways... early night, take care hun x. If you ever wanna PM me, or MSN me, then go ahead
xx
You know that's not true.
Their are people who care and care quite a lot.
Their are people, or a person who are willing to listen and who are willing to be their for you.
Finding a person you can trust enough to open upto may be hard but when you do you have someone who you can be open & honest with and get anything off you're chest to.
*hugs*
Burn in fact so infected it's made me ill. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.
Doctors tomorrow. Also fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.
I just did a super long rant in my LJ as well .
balls to that.
without my good friend the anti depressant i would be dead.
There is nothing wrong with using AD's if you think that they are going to help you. It is your body, your mental health and your choice to take them or not and do not let yourself get swayed by thier personal opinions. If they cant accept that you are on them because of their opinions then they should back off and let you do what is right for you. Glad to hear you went to the doctors, I should really go back and get my head sorted out, but I hated the last one I went to see and he put me off asking for help again.
But thats the way everyone gets over it, you cant get better without slipping up, we all do it. Same as the s/h, just think you've not done it for so long and you can go that long again. *hugs* I'm okay at the moment, might not be this time tomorrow.
Glad you're ok. I'm... alright. Here is prob the best expression.