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i know its irattional but hey thats what my heads like lol
What about the women who visit a hairdresser for the company, not the cut?
He'd have people coming in weekly/fortnightly, and he'd do very little, except chat and pretend to be interested in their lives. And do the whole camp routine if he thought it was what they wanted. He would rather have been seeing them less often, and restyling than the basic maintenance he was doing - but he knew what his customers wanted.
My question was how this example of someone paying for another to feign intimacy fits into your "hugely judgmental" mindset - i.e. just backing it off from sex, just a little, because (as far as I'm concerned) there are big post-christian hangups that seem to make people stop thinking as soon as sex get involved.
Starting to think i'm the only one
Urrr I would never go near a man if he even thought about it! Its cheap and dirty!!
Nah, you're not
I think the latest figures showed that 1 in 10 men surveyed had visited a prostitute. Tbh, as I said, as long as both parties are safe and consenting, I really don't have a problem with it. There are far worse things a person could do.
If I click with someone and really like them, then tbh, they could have any amount of sordid skeletons in their closet and I wouldnt necessarily hold it against them unless it was something dangerous to me and mine. If i could understand why someone did something and the context they did it then no problem at all. If it was indicative of how they saw women in general and it was an ongoing thing, then they probably wouldnt be the kind of person id like anyway.
But unless someone is entirely honest with you about their sexual history, how would you know? Would you ask them? I'm just curious.
I havent been in the situation where i have been with a bloke who had visited them b4 so maybe my opinion would change if i did, but all in all, i think as long as the men r happy, and the prostitues are doing it out of choice to make a living, not being forced to by someone then fair play to them.
well yeah, obviously, but its not as if thats the only two options open to people.
Rape isnt about sexual gratification. Its about violence. its not the same thing.
I'm thinking of breaking my virginity by using one, just the once. Anyway how would a girl know about me sleeping with a prostitute if I didn't tell her? And I wouldn't.
Why? Is losing your virginity that big a deal for you or something?