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the day after i felt a bit achey but i wouldnt describe it as sore
QUESTION!
With my previous boyfriend, we did a lot of everything that wasn't sex, basically. And I was wondering if the blood that there was when he used his fingers (to put it nicely) was maybe due to being broken a little?
Or something? Cause that sometimes hurt a little too. Or was it just that I was becoming a little less tight?
Yeah...
Hmm...
I guess I just gotta wait and see, huh?
Pretty much hun. But if you've had experience of something "being there", that's likely to help a little. But everyone's different.
my friend JUST lost hers - they had sum probs gettin there (dont do too much foreplay - based on her exeriance it can go drastically wrong after too much!!!) in the end she used lube, but it still hurt her quite a bit and yesterday in class (the day after) she said she was still tender "down there".
go for it and after a few gos the pain (if you get it) will go and ull love it
I didnt bleed, pain and discomfort. and I felt really ill a few hours after. Major headache and nausea. Was gonna pass out as he held me on the way to the station :S
could have nothing to do with it, could have. I dunno
we took it nice and slowly - didn't use lube or anything, just took it slowly - it actually hurt me more the first inch or so inside me - one he was all the way in, it felt really comfy and natural - in fact i did actually manage to cum as well, which i didn't think i would.
if you're worried - use some lube, take your time and don't rush anything, it will def take a few goes to get it just right...
take care
love cavey
xxx
good luck.