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When I speak of self-esteem it comes from my personal experience of people. The women who sleep around often to it to feel loved. You have never met me and thus can't make any comparison.
Evidence?
Not all women are the same, not all of us want a liar, if any male figure in our lives at all. If you respected and listened to to many women you wouldn't be making broad assumptions.
Tut.
you must look very plain. but hey cant argue about that. some people are just plain and boring. some are just boring.
well it is true about women who sleep around often do to feel loved. but dont everyone wants to feel loved. this desire to be loved just manifests itself in another way.
just like ugly people say 'its whats inside that counts'
so i gander youre les. so what made you become les?
and as i said all women need respecting. (my reason is i came out of a woman). but some need be respected more than others. and i do have respect for you believe it or not. even if it may be minute. otherwise id be slagging of everything you say and contradict youre every opinion just to prove you otherwise.
Tut.[/QUOTE]
When I look through your post, they give me the idea of you just bringing forth offensive comments and later arguing about it. Arguments are not all about having the last word, swearing and winning the argument, it is to display your opinion and nothing else.
Chill out a bit eh
What makes you say that? Being ugly is purely subjective, you cannot prove that a person is ugly.
Why the ugly people generally say that the inside is what counts is because other people have treated them with their beliefs of them being ugly. If they were not treated as ugly and complimented as those who had better looks, they would have the identical social self-esteem as the good looking.
:thumb: Very well said.
badassmother - I'm getting fed up of politely pointing out the behaviour that's expected here only for it to be ignored by you. This is a warning that if you carry on you'll be banned.
thats the ethos of society. we all feed off of others opinions and external information. thats how we know where to stand how to judge things.
thats how one would think he or she is ugly or beautiful. from the feedback of other people.
freedom of speech. ei. dont hate me cos i have things to say which you cant pssibly dream of saying in public. or to anyone. dont hate me cos im not like you. and im not white.
true. but thats human behavioiur. thats why humans use jewelry or self adornments (from diamonds to sticks to peircings to tatooes). because we have a sense of what is beautiful. dont think that its only modern society because this is very evident in tribal groups. ie those that are isolated from modern society.
Why is it that every asshole on these boards trots out this expression when the mods point out that they are being offensive.
Read the part you signed up to and you will realise that you don't have that right on these boards. So STFU and pay attention to what the mods say, otherwise freedom to post at all with be removed...
yeah youre right anyway. the mods are the boss. whatever man. filter out what you wanna hear and not what you want.
as Dr Goebel said (or something in the line) What you want is to disguise uniformity by having a bit of diversity.
Don't tell me! ... their personality ...... ?
Ok, so women who don't wear make up are automatically 'plain'? Maybe where you are mate, but where I am there are a lot of extremely pretty women who don't NEED to wear makeup... 'Pretty' being subjective of course, but accessorising helps.
Just because somebody doesn't agree with you doesn't make them 'ugly', no need to try and insult me or anybody else because it just makes you seem like you're throwing your toys out of the pram...
I'm sure you've seen my gay card then. Grow up...
No you're not slagging me off, but you're not showing respect for my opinion. I think what you do is dishonest and pathetic, in fact you come across as desperate, both in siding with your views and getting laid.
And to be honest, you have a messed up idea of what 'respect' is.
I'd say having feelings of sexual attraction to members of the same sex.
If you're male and men turn you on more than women, you're probably gay. Vice versa if you're a lesbian.
sorry for bringing up an ancient thread, but what the hell is this
lol, not that bit.
"vagina dentata"