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not sure if it should go here or in 'style and appearence'
I was wondering if anyone on here had any experiences of breast enlargements or any medical advice as i really have been considering getting one. I'm suffering with depression at the moment and the way i look has started to get me down on top of everything else, i can change my hair, i can change my makeup and clothes but my chest i can't. I look like a child i have nothing and i don't feel like a woman at all
I was wondering if anyone on here had any experiences of breast enlargements or any medical advice as i really have been considering getting one. I'm suffering with depression at the moment and the way i look has started to get me down on top of everything else, i can change my hair, i can change my makeup and clothes but my chest i can't. I look like a child i have nothing and i don't feel like a woman at all
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breast implants need to be changed every 10 years or so.
it is a huge operation and it does sometimes go wrong
your implants might end up looking shit. most do. you won't suddenly have these natural looking boobs. they will look fake and certainly feel fake. and they might look funny too.
not all men like fake boobs. infact i know quite a few who hate them. i would also much rather have a man who loves me inspite of all my insecurities.
if you still feel like you want them done then go ahead. just don't expect it to be some amazing cure to your depression and low self esteem.
When she goes through a really skinny stage she is AA/A cup.. I don't give a shit though, I tell her that, I mean who the fuck would want someone they love to go through major surgery because of a set of tits?
But then on the other hand I see how much it cuts her up and she really really struggles sometimes to even find a top she can wear because she just has literally nothing there..
I hope if she does go through with it, it makes her happy anyway - love her.
Make sure you think it's the right thing to do though, and don't do it for guys sakes !! Being really dirty is better than any set of jugs in my eyes, ha! :thumb:
post of the week really!
Just wondering if anyone could recommend any places e.g harley street or transform etc as i've been looking at their websites but obviously if someone has experience or a place it's always good to know their views.
Well that and i'm not a big fan of operations.
Incidently, I'm 19 now and they started growing more last year. Before that they spent about 3 years at 32A, so you could be due a growth spurt.
What happens when you get 32C's and decide they aren't big enough? or you decide your arse is too big etc? Would this be the start of a slippery slope for you?
Also consider the fact that if you get "big" boobs and you have a small frame, you're going to struggle to find tops that really fit.
But othertimes I feel that my body is fine the way it is and ive never had any complaints. But saying that, would I of had more offers if i had bigger breasts? Ive never had a cleavage or anything to show there and no bra can create one lol.
A small handful, like a 32B or a tad more like 34C is aspireable in my book. I don't give a effing about your jugs and if you can smother or knock me unconscious with them.
maybe the letter symstem is a bit different in the uk, since it seems everyone has melons there, must be something in the drinking water.
Also consider that a breast enlargement will not help with your self-esteem if you have problems in other areas. It will give you a temporary boost, but if you hate yourself you'll hate yourself regardless of how big your boobs are.
It is major surgery, there can be complications, and you need to make sure you're doing it for the right reasons if you do do it.
you have a sporty body and in my humble opinion, your breat size is perfect to your body and does not look too small on you. The enlarged breasts won't solve anything for you in the aftermath. I go as far to say they do more bad than good.
Think very carefully and take the advice on here to heart about that issue.
My friend whose implants I know the most about (:razz:) had hers done about 3 years ago now with Bupa in Leeds. She went from a 32A - 32D/DD (though she is "officially" an E) with a teardrop-shaped implant. They don't look as big as you'd imagine for the size of 'em and people generally dont have a clue unless they knew her well before and after or she's nekkid. They are pretty soft now, and feel and look very natural, they seem to get softer every year. Well, not that I feel them every year on the same date, but you get what I mean. She's so petite that when she first had them done you could see the surgeon's incision under the breast, but they hang (is that the right word? fall?) really naturally now. Looks pretty damn good.
She doesn't regret having it done at all, it has changed her career completely but it hasn't had any impact at all on her personal life. That is one thing to beware of, she didn't have it done to make her any "happier" with her breast size, it was a pretty calculated career move. That sounds awful, but it does make sense. As for needing to have them replaced every 10 years, well I believe that is just a rough guideline given by surgeons to cover their backs. In a lot of cases the implants do last a lot longer than that and can even last up to about 20 years. It depends from person to person, and on the implants themselves.
Oh, and I will always remember he telling me that it is so imporrtant to go to a BAPS/BAAPS-registered surgeon (I know, it sounds like a joke
No offence like, but what's that got to do with the price of cheese?
I think that Kermit has summed it up perfectly. Wait until you finish developing fully (ie 21) and then see how you feel.