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I haven't. Try reading my posts.
No, obviously.
A real shame that, too. Because I think groping is unacceptable regardless of intention, and it'd be great to see more men prosecuted for doing it.
I suppose life gives you different opinions of things. I could quite easily stand there and make a rapist beg for death because of what's happened to people in my life.
I have, I was merely underscoring the point.
Kermit, yes personal experiences obviously shape views. This thread should die now I think...unless someone else has something controversial to say
The intention is always the same, it's how it's received that changes.
voila its matter a matter of the recipients opinion which is why it cant be legally enforced imo
BUT IT IS A CRIMINAL OFFENCE :banghead:
So fucking what?
You are missing a sentence.....here it is -
UNLESS IT GETS YOU LAID :banghead:
This is why it's not going to stop, no matter how right or wrong you decide it is. Some men will literally do anything to get their oats. hell, they'll even have a bath.
But the attacker has to reasonably assume that there is consent if the woman does not consent.
It'd be great to see more people prosecuted for this.
Amount of men who do this incredibly stupid behaviour who think it's not welcome - almost none I bet.
It'd be more effective to see fewer of them get a shag, but that's not going to happen either. It's massively open to abuse, for fucks sake. Woman wakes up, has buyers remorse because her "friend's will think she's a slut" and suddenly last nights more than welcome touch, snog and blow job becomes this mornings "assault."
Its amusing. Im wondering how long it will take to die.
Longest surviving thread of the year?
With what, exactly?
Personal anecdotes? Proof beyond a reasonable doubt? Scientific proof? What my mates uncle's cousin's ghost Frank's buddies sister said in the pub?
And that's the whole point. The whole thing is entirely subjective.
Those "horrible groping cunts" will find someone who is receptive, eventually. FACT. Without physical damage being caused the whole thing is bullshit.
I have to say that it's great that you want to live in a world where you can say something like "hmmmm....nice ass" and have any response from getting laid to being put on the sex offenders register depending on the emotional state of the listener at the time. :rolleyes:
Not at all. I resent that acusation. Apology please.
No, he's asking for an apology for you insinuating he might have had that problem himself, which I think is quite fair.
Mr. Turlough is quite correct, I have never had that problem myself, and an apology would be most welcome.
I am sorry I either mustn't have made my position clear or you are a fuckwit. Which is it?
Apologies would be good.
You will eventually find a woman who consents to being raped if you try often enough. Does that mean rape is anything other than immoral?
If you have no regard for consent then you are a sexual abuser. It is pure luck that a woman is receptive to it, and luck is no basis for anything.
Klintock, you are arguing shit. Presumably just to annoy Blagsta, as Turlough has said he is.
How does touching a girl's arse in a club equate to sexual abuse? A low form of harrassment perhaps, abuse? Errr...no. Any rational person can make that distinction.
It does, legally and morally.
The definiton of sexual assault is to touch someone, in a sexual place, without consent. Groping someone's arse in a pub qualifies on all three.
If you get done for it you'll end up on the Sex Offenders Register for five years, and quite rightly so.
There is no moral justification at all for groping someone's arse in a pub.
you think thats bold? Its not, its cowardly.
I used that line last night on some old lad who had grabbed my arse, shut the twat up good n proper. Vile.
I'm really really fucking hurting now haha, wanna see my legs :shocking:
Bit of craic like.