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.matt
Totally disagree with you Lucifer, sounds completely normal to me - dude just needs to realise he has substance!!
But i think you should just ask her out as friends and just see what happens then.
take the pressure of yourself!
Good luck though,
once you make the first move everything wont see so crazy!
Once your friends, take it from there.
By the way, love has nothing to do with wanting to kiss her and her burning up you pants- it's to do with a lot more than that, and I don't think you can love her if she doesn't love you back. You have to spend a lot more time with her to have a proper, serious relationship that involves love.
I think you should really ask her out ASAP, the longer ur not with her, the more ur gonna feel like u love her more (u always want what u can't have!) and maybe ur fooling urself on how u actually feel.
The sooner u ask her out, the sooner u know where u stand, even if she does break ur heart, u can move on & maybe meet someone that really deserves u & who u feel completely comfortable with and have great fun!
Life is too short to think about these things..just go for it & best of luck!! Just remember that everything happens for a reason so don't be too upset if she says no.
Ps. Hurry up & ask her coz i'm dying to find out what happens!! hehe
Sweetiebabe Xx
I'd say break it too her that you like her... but don't tell her how much. Express a little bit of interest, but don't tell her how deeply you feel, really it's just to see how she reacts and DON'T mention about your little fantasies.
Well............ aint still asked her, as i havent seen her, althought i spoke to her on MSN, but you sed dont go there.
And she is having 3 weeks off work so its a long wait. :crying:
Dont life suck?
I think u should ask her on MSN if that's what u feel comfortable doin, i got to know my first boyfriend on messenger and through textin (was introduced through a friend), we only met in person after gettin to know each other on MSN and we were together for 1yr & a half after that. Have to admit if i didnt get to know him on MSN, i prob wouldnt have even given him a chance, he's wasnt exactly my type physically but we jus clicked when we chatted on the net n b4 i knew it, he jus looked gorgeous to me!
So anyway, next time ur talkin to her on MSN, try get into a good deep conversation & go for it!
I do see where other ppl are comin from, that u might seem like a coward, etc. but if thats what u feel more comfortable with then do it, no point pretending to be someone ur not.......
Keep me updated.....this is better than watchin all those soaps!
Sweetiebabe Xx
You need to do this face to face. I started yapping to my current bloke on msn, and when meeting him face to face, I was lost for words and couldn't look at him right. I confessed to liking him to his face, you need to do it like that, be honest and open - be a lil vulnerable - expect a yes or a no. Ask her out to SOMEWHERE dammit! Just to the cinema or something!
Malt xxx
I personally think it is love. i would do anything for her (life or death, would choose death if it saved her). And she may like me (doubt it) but is like me to shy to admit it and scared of what people will say.
I allways try and chat to her on msn to get to know her, she allways leaves or i have to wait 10mins for a reply....
And i am really scared to ask her thats why i havent.
(Soz if post is weird, im tired)
:crying:
Thanks for you help in this area
:thumb:
josh
you're wrong, it just isnt accepted like the requited variety. and to be honest how can you be sure about that in every case, i mean you say it as if you know its an objective fact :no:
I walked down to her house and then we walked to work, i must of sed 5 words the whole time (17mins).
I then was earwiggin into a conversation and she IS going out with a boy :nervous: allthough i dont think it will last, she dont speak about him, he smokes (she and her parents dont like smokinh), and i dont think the parents also like him and he's a locksmith (probally a Chav too [LOL]).
Guess now i just have to build up our friendship!
This has got to be torturing you now. Maybe it's best if ya just moved on. And maybe except that nothing is going to happen. At least not anytime soon as she is involved with someone no matter what you think of the guy.
Guess so
Yes it is, defnatly
Kinda
Guess your right
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Someone shoot me!
But it's not fair putting up with soo much disappointment, waiting for her to be single, or giving you a sign that she likes you the same way; when it may never happen.
And i cant ask her out - i said 4words in like 20mins to her! thats how shy i am to people.
And i have decided to go back to the gym, my cousin says i can have mucsels, well good pecs and a body if i work at it (been in prison etc. so he knows about weights lol). so shall i wait till i get fit/fitter and get more of a chance or say i like her now and may get a fefusal coz im fat! :banghead:
josh-meister
She can't honestly be worth all this trouble. If she can't genuinely like you for who you are, then you just have to let her go.
Though if you can't settle till you know for sure, then just ask her out. Don't think about it. Just do it.
Let her have the option in who she'd rather be with.
Women are evil. Closer was right.