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I wasnt trying to paint you as anything. I was just surprised by your reaction thats all.
It seemed to me that someone asking if you fancied going down on a bloke was a fairly run of the mill question. You then compared it to fucking an animal or child abuse. A little drastic dont you think?
If you read what I said , you can see that TO ME it would be that repulsive.
Because of MY sexual orientation !
As I said, it would be easier if I was Bi . I would have a better choice of lovers !! But is not mu fucking choice.
Its instinct, genes etc.
Not religion, political correctness, homophobia , or fridgidness as people always try to quote.
The fact that I am totally straight makes you uneasy...Sorry !
But with me there is no , one or the other !
You just seem to have quite an extreme reaction to it thats all.
I do like your idea of a sexual utopia where people just fuck people and who cares though.
Yup, that's true.
You mean by shouting, and I quote:
Why does it "offend" you?
Why does it "sicken" you?
Do you have to do it? No. Do you have to watch someone do it? No. So what is so "sickening" and "offensive" about the idea of one man consensually having roal sex with another man? I doubt you are so sanctimonious when you're beating off to teenagelesbianorgy.com.
Nobody is saying you HAVE to liek it, it was an honest question. A simple "no" would have sufficed, without going off on the homophobic rant.
I hate to ruin your little rant, but I'm "straight" enough to be getting married next year. Yet I would be tempted to give oral sex to a man, it's something that intrigues me.
There's no such thing as "gay" or "straight" or "bi", every human is just sexual. Some can be 99.99%, some can be 50%, some can be 0.001%, but nothing is clear cut.
Exactly
It is not a fact, its your opinion, theres a difference.
so what do you pu someone under if they are curious about trying something with the same sex? Maybe later find out they didnt like it afterall?
well then i don't exist
i am bi
i fancy men and women, and have slept with both and think both are as good as the other in the sack
i'd still rather be with a bloke than a woman, hence why i'm engaged
so you're still telling me there's no percentage of bi??
I experimented with a girl. Didn't fancy her, and don't. And am never gonna do it again (just didn't like it.) But that doesn't make me bi (I like MEN, always have, always will as far as I now). Doesn't make me bi-curious cuz I wasn't curious it just happened cuz we were both drunk...
But I don't fine it disgusting. Why should men start being disgusted by the thought of men sucking each other?
I agree that not all men have hidden gay sexual tendancies, and that they would NEVER even consider trying it. But some would.
Also just 'cuz you're bi doesnt mean you have to like men & women 50-50. The ratio could be 90-10, I mean sexuality and emotions are very complex. (I apologise if that's got nothing to do with recents posts 'cuz I stop reading after 2nd page!)
Meh....end of story.
To be fair, he was talking about himself. He never said he had a problem about gay men themselves.
I also agree with captaincaveman.
It's easier for people who are bi/curious to say what sexual urges they would have for the same/opposite sex.
Straight people do not have sexual urges for the same sex. If you claim to be straight then secretly would like to get off with the same sex; then you are bisexual. That simple really.
Does your question mean Joe Average or Anyone with Wedding Tackle ... e.g. That Miriam from Sky??
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I'm not quite sure what you are on about.
so what if someone grows up liking say (a woman liking a man)men but then gets curious as to what it would be like to do thing with a woman. She then decideds that its not really what she thought.
So does she go from straight to bi to straight again?!
No what I mean is that there is no set % of Bi. You can be mostly straight but every once in a while you prefer someone of the same sex. Or you can be mostly gay but every once in a while you sleep with the opposite sex. Or it can be 50/50.
And as far as I'm concerned there are four "labels"
Straight - Only sleep with the opposite sex
Gay - Only sleep with the same sex
Bi - Sleep with either sex
BiCurios - Sleep with the opposite sex but wouldn't mind trying someone of the same sex.
Thats what i think.
Actually I think I need to change this slighty.
BiCurious - Sleep with the opposite or same sex but wouldn't mind trying someone of the same or opposite sex.
Because you can be gay and wonder what it would be like to sleep with someone of the opposite sex which would make you BiCurious.
I have tried three times to post my reply to this but the fucking thing keeps saying I am not logged on ! Fuck
So short answer Kermit.
1. I am not shouting , I am typing. Stop trying to make me look like a mad man !
2. I am not ranting, i am having an interesting open discussion. Again thats a cheap way to try score points.....
3. Don't bandwagon and start calling me a homophobic. Read my previous posts before you talk shit. I know how it annoys you when others don't read the full thread before commenting.
4. It does offend me . Why you ask ?
well why does it intrigue you ? Why do I like one food not the other> how the shit would I know but it does . Get over it. Its how I am made !
5 . two men giving each other oral sex is a great thing , if thats what they want. I would never criticise others lives because unlike you I don't think I am better than ant one ! But its not my bag !
6. Hope you get a chance to suck a mans dick and by all means tell me how it goes but its just not something I could ever want.Its not in MY make up ! Sorry
7. Please try to be constructive instead of just posting as a band wagoner. Its not like you.
I think if you are bi you are bi, no matter what the percentages.
I think curious is NOT straight but perhaps someone with a small amount of Bi tendencies.
Sex is too simple to classify. If you prefer the love of a man and also enjoy sex with him you are more likely to be more drawn to men, but you may have some bi tendencies to the same sex, try it and decide you wish to stick with dick.
Some are 100 % gay. Some are 100 % straight. I really think that does happen. I think its me ....
That does not make me a gay bashing macho man.....Its just sexual feelings orientation
Cant say i agree
Me too !! See constructive discussion can win through !
Yes i am bi curious which you said there is no such thing, so what do you label me as?
Very good ......hmmm you have kind of got me there ! But to be fair I do mostly make stupid jokes and large exclamations when I am writing on these threads.
at the time I was refering to you saying I should suck a mans dick on another thread , about drinking your own cum. So i was suprised to see it again a second later as a thread topic ! Ha
Any way I was not serious there. Or at least not AS serious.
When Bongbudda and yourself started making constructive arguements and intelligent points I did drop the bull shit and try to speak on the level.
At that point I had no idea we were really going to get into it and I admit I was a little flippant as is my nature ! Apologies if it came over as an ass
Ok fair enough.
I did not say it does not exist. A straight person who thinks about sex with the opposite sex IS BI CURIOUS ! Thats what I am saying ! They may not be VERY curious but they do have some tendencies even if they don't act on them.
You do. And thats cool.
I am none of the above so I can only assume I am totally straight, which as I have said already , is not my choice or the most advantageous way to be ! I am limited in who I can have sex with which is a bummer.
Like Bongbudda , I guess a sexual Utopia would be cool . But its not that easy ..
But here is a question. Can Gay men be more macho, ( not appearance) then straight men ? And what is it that makes a REAL man , as far as female attraction goes, in the manly macho sense of it ?
Or should that be a seperate thread ?
Now i am confused, that is the same thing surely?!
AAAAAAAAAAAAARGH ! Listen man, I don't think it is as sick repulsive as child abuse or sex with animals , ( land or sea dwelling ) .
Please read what I am saying.......
To ME , having sex with another man would be every bit as sickening to my stomach as the concept of child abuse or sex with animals...
For those that do have gay sex , well they are obviously loving it !! And fair balls to them for that. But I am on the other end of the spectrum.
My hormonal make up is just like that.
You may like shrimp....I would vomit if i smelt it !
Hope this is clear.
And yes, your sexual preference makes no odds when it comes to that, I've known gay men who were really 'straight' seeming and a straight bloke who was really girly.
What makes a 'real man' well depends on what the woman wants I suppose.
Sorry.
I don't think there is such a sexuality as curious .
I know people are curious and I think that make them BISEXUAL . not curious ! The may be a little curious and never even act on it but that still means they have some bi sexual tendencies in my book.
I am sure thats what you think too....no ?