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Was just readin summik on freeserve, bout a 12yr old girl who hads just had a baby! :eek2: Wtf is goin on?! :rolleyes:
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:yeees: oh ha ha ha ha haaaa!
Everything people are saying is making me laugh today.
yeh but how did she get pregnant? i mean - was it through consenting sex or was she raped?
well it says she refuses to name the father, so i think it was consenting.
ah but you never know. I refuse to name my daughter's father, and yet i didnt consent. either way i feel sorry for the poor girl. even if she did consent, no one should have a child at 12. is she keeping it?
i do realise that is worded very badly, but it's late here
Yeah, cuz it says shes gona get help from ppl n stuff. Dont know how shes gona cope at 12, i mean thats her whole teenage years like *poof* gone!
I just don't know how's she's going to do it, but as long as she has some help, I suppose.
well by the time she's 18, the kid will be six, so it will start to become independant in a sense that it will be attending school, staying at friends houses etc etc, so that will give the girl the opportunity to work or go to college or whatever, but you're right - at whatever age you have a child the next few years are pretty much 'poof' out the window.
she must be a fairly physically and mentally mature 12 year old else they wouldnt have allowed her to go through with the pregnancy and keep the baby at the end of it.
wasnt the youngest girl to ever have a child 9 years old, and wasnt that the result of some sexual assault or something? i swear she was nine...
poor lass
The link too it.
yeah, but she didnt keep here baby, one thing she well regrets! :rolleyes:
its not very encouraging that it states she is having support from these people, and yet it says nothing about her own parents. i really feel for the poor girl, she must feel so alone and so scared. its hard enough for anyone doing it alone, but at 12 years old, i just cant imagine
what i meant by my comment was that they would have strongly advised the girl to have an abortion if she wasnt physically able to continue with the pregnancy without risking damage to herself, and possibly puttingh her own life in danger. pregnancy puts a great strain on the body, and young girls just arent built for it - if they though she would be jepardising both her and the childs chances opf survival they would have advised her on abortion. but aparently she didnt know she was pregnant, so that is irrelevant.
as for the latter, i meant that if they felt the girl wasnt mature enough to make the right decisions and to look after the baby and cope with being a parent then (aswith anyone under these circumstances) they would have gone about having the child taken away from her. hope that makes sense.
i know i was only 3 years older than her when i fell pregnant, but i dont understand why that's relevant?
it says she started menstruating at 8 months old. thats unbelievable to me; but then i am pretty sceptical of things like this.
^theres an article on the 5year old