Grief

Chloe234

Its just so much i had my nans cremation a little bit ago but now we are having a little service today to bufy them🥺😭im still grieving like mad for my stepmum, i miss my cat and i miss my nan too, argh idk. I feel guilty cuz i didt cry at any of thier funerals. I feel empty

Amy22

I'm sorry to hear that @Chloe234. I hear that you recently had your nans cremation and that you will be having a service. I hear that you have been feeling guilty for feeling empty as well as grieving. You don't have to feel guilty for feeling empty. It's understandable as you have recently lost your
stepmum, cat and nan. It sounds like you have lost a lot of people who were very close to you. I can understand why you might be feeling guilty for feeling empty. But going through grief can be very hard and a lot of emotions come with that. It also sounds like the main emotion you have currently facing is guilt. It's okay to feel this way. How are you feeling about the service you are doing today?. Hope you are feeling okay,

Sending hugs,

Amy22

Azziman

Sorry to hear about your loss, passing on condolences to you and the family. It's okay not to cry or feel, people deal with loss in different ways. Be kind to yourself, lean on close ones for support, and let yourself go through the motions