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How are you feeling about the proposed easing of restrictions in July?
AislingDM
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Just wanted to check in and see how everyone is feeling because I know there are a wide-range of opinions and emotions surrounding the government's plans/choices. I thought it might be useful to talk it out and maybe learn from each other? 
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I don’t know what anyone else thinks about the mask situation?
That said, I don’t think I’d choose to wear a mask in most situations (with the possible exception of public transport). Especially once I’ve had my second vaccine.
I won’t miss having to book everything, even the pub across the road from me is operating on a bookings only policy at the moment (you can book 5 minutes in advance, but still) there’s something I miss about being able to take trips out and change plans spontaneously.
I'm hoping that whilst we do enjoy our freedom, we can be mindful of our safety and that this battle isn't over just yet.
I'm still going to continue wearing a mask.
I'm also aware that one of the vaccines has a rare side effect that's had people hospitalised(?) (Correct me if I'm wrong) and there's a been a lot of reluctance with getting the vaccine. (Might start a different thread on this since this might be for a different conversation). So even if the lockdown has been eased, there's also some concerns that needs to be addressed.
On the other hand, the lockdown has also impacted our daily lives abruptly. So it might take a lot of time for some people to readjust back to their daily routine.
Honestly, it's just a lot to take in.
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I got on a bus yesterday and nobody but me was wearing a mask. There was at least 7-8 other people who did not have a mask. Im kinda at a point now where I've learnt to live with the threat of covid. I've had covid. I've had both vaccines. I've done what I can to protect myself
Couldn't agree more @Oli ! I tend to go red when I get nervous and embarrassed and so the mask covers most of that up nicely haha! I'm glad to hear some positivity has been derived from this for you
Yeah yeah 100% we all need to be thinking about the most at-risk people in the country @Past User ! Bless your heart, I am sure this is causing you a fair amount of worry. I couldn't agree more about certain places maintaining restrictions, thankfully I've seen a lot of info about supermarkets, Uber and public transport keeping masks at the bare minimum!
Yeah it seems like a lot of other countries have had a much more appropriate response to the virus throughout the last 18 months! But yes defo agree about missing the spontaneity, being unable to turn up somewhere without a lot of foresight can be very frustrating. @independent_
I get you ! @Aidan like coming out of this (regardless of whether it's a good idea or not) is always going to be confusing because certain places will stop masks sooner than others and I do wonder often if things will ever go back truly to 'normal'? I must say I have been enjoying the lack of colds/flus I have had as a result of enhanced hygiene and masks in public spaces.
I agree, I think it's also fairly concerning that the NHS could become overwhelmed and if we are not careful enough this summer then we could be back in another lockdown over winter which feels even more concerning! @Dandelion
Yes completely @lovemimoon ! It makes so much sense to be in such a dual mindset about this, like there are clear benefits and clear drawbacks to easing restrictions and I think it's hard because a lot of people (myself included) have a hard time trusting the government's plans, especially when lots of experts disagree?? But equally there is the en-masse mental ill-health caused by the lockdown and lack of social support so, it's a tough one! (P.s. I love your profile pic!)
Couldn't agree more @Riley ! I think another concerning thing about the lack of double vaccinated people is that a fair number of those are young people (as we got the opportunity later on to get vaxxed) and we are likely to go to crowded events (like clubs) and so I am not putting the onus upon young people, but it does feel worrying how fast the virus could spread in these settings before we're all double vaxxed!
100% it really is such a complex reaction to such a complex period of time @Dancer
I love to hear how proactive you are at keeping yourself (and others safe) @GreenTea ! But yeah 100% like seeing people do a 180 on masks so fast after the easing of restrictions must be scary, tbh I do not look forward to my first trip out to the supermarket after my isolation
Defo! @zaynab_5 like it feels like the pattern of easing restrictions and rising cases is so clear and evident. I think we should at least be waiting till we reach 90% double vaxxed across the country (where possible, I know it's harder for certain groups to access the vaccine or feel comfortable getting it e.g., sex workers).
Thank you everyone for being so insightful here, I really appreciate gaining everyone's perspective as it helps me to better understand where everyone is at atm in terms of covid
I'm sure it's different everywhere, but I have noticed that not a huge difference has happened where I am. Lots of people, including myself, are still wearing their masks like normal. Which is reassuring to see!
Yeah, it's very much the same where I am, @coc0mac. 90% of people are still wearing masks indoors and on public transport. Which like you say, is comforting to see!
Definitely makes things feel more secure than I expected
There should always be support available!
What type of support were you looking for that you couldn't access when you needed it?
Hopefully, we can help to make sure that support is available if similar rules are re-applied!
Is there a pastoral worker you work with frequently in your school? They may be known by other names such as personal tutor, mentor, counsellor, therapist, advocate, a key worker, coach, an intervention support worker, an intervention leader, an intervention facilitator, a nurture practitioner or a thrive practitioner, etc. Really anyone who helps to look out for you outside of the classroom.
If so, are you able to maintain contact with them? If not, please remember that you have other support services like us, Childline, Shout, and Samaritans. We are all just a message or call away!
Well definitely remember we are always here for you and so are Childline, Shout, and Samaritans
It is clear to me that you are struggling a lot, and it is simply terrible that your mental health, family life and schoolwork is not being prioritised by the school. I also just wanted to check if you wanted to talk more about your adoptive parents making you suffer after speaking to your pastoral worker? (more than okay if not) Big hugs
I saw your post about being moved into care soon. How are you feeling about this?
Have you got any support in place at the moment whilst you are waiting to go into care?
Please remember we are all here for you if you want to talk to someone. You don't have to go through this alone. We are listening to you and care about you
I can hear your mixed emotions. It is both a positive time for you and a nervous time.
In all honesty, the school will depend on if you are moved into social care in the same area or in a different area. If you live in the same area, you can sometimes attend the same school.
Childline has more information about this at https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/home-families/family-relationships/living-care/ which you might find useful.
If you have any questions or need anything to be clarified, please ask away!