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But the calling out that has happened hasn't been with kindness
The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.
I don't think you understand what I was saying so I'm just going to leave it here.
What i meant when i said why should someone prove their hurt was, if they have explained their issue and it doesn't sit right with you, why should they prove to you that they are telling the truth? Why not give them the benefit of the doubt?.
Mike said:Like xyz does not seem possible... are you sure this is how it happened? If you can tell us the whole story we can support you better. This gives them the chance to kinda backtrack and not lose face as such. I'm just about to go offline but wanted to briefly acknowledge this @Jellyelephant and say you absolutely can say this. It's okay to clarify and ask questions if something doesn't add up. The issues come up when things become hostile or accusations start happening.We'll get back to you in full once we're back online.
I wrote my opinion and feedback originally and it got picked Apart so I did my best to explain further. I didn't pick apart anyone. I tried to explain my opinion the best I can. I'm sorry if my opinion makes you uncomfortable.