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Hello :)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 117 The Mix Convert
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Hiya,
I'm AJ (she/her), I'm 18 (19 in 2 months!) and new! Have been looking around for a while and finally got the courage to join, even though I am still a little confused about how this all works... I hope that I can help out as much as be supported. 
A little bit about me... I am a first year uni student studying Classics and I love it (bit niche, I know). I also do quite a bit of ballet and dance en pointe. I have a rather odd sense of humour and am fully of the belief that its worth laughing rather than crying and think that's the main reason I am still coping! I have struggled with my mental health for around 7 years (depression, anxiety, self harm, hallucinations), have had a diagnosed eating disorder for almost a year and am being investigated for PTSD due to ongoing difficulties at home. Not a particularly great summary, but hey, that's me. :) 
I hope everyone is doing alright! 
Much love, 
AJ xx
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loop Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Welcome AJ! :) 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 287 The Mix Regular
    Hi @_AJ_

    Welcome to the boards! Big step to take the courage and join so well done, I hope you find these boards useful.

    Not sure if you already went through the boards but good sections to start is 'Start Here' and 'Help Desk'  . There you'll find some of the basics of the boards but if you have any particular questions you can just ask anyone.

    How have you found your first year of uni?

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 117 The Mix Convert
    mags98 said:
    Hi @_AJ_

    Welcome to the boards! Big step to take the courage and join so well done, I hope you find these boards useful.

    Not sure if you already went through the boards but good sections to start is 'Start Here' and 'Help Desk'  . There you'll find some of the basics of the boards but if you have any particular questions you can just ask anyone.

    How have you found your first year of uni?

    Hey :) 
    Thanks for the welcome (and to you @Laine) and for the tips! Think I am mainly just trying to figure the most appropriate places to post certain things!
    It's been a bit of a whirlwind and cut sadly short (though I am looking into going back next term due to my home situation). I have been very unwell throughout and the support from NHS services just wasn't in place so it was a struggle, but I love my course and have made some good friends!
    AJ 
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,687 Skive's The Limit
    Heyy AJ and welcome!

    Everyones nice and welcoming! If youre confused about anything just post it here on in the help desk here. And we will help you out! Can be a little bit confused to start with. Many of us struggle with these challenges are youre not alone! I struggle with an eating disorder i would say its okay atm bit times it goes bad. And if you post where you think it fits - then its most likely correct and if not the mix will move it for you anyway. 

    Also Love your picture!!  Youre brave for maki your first post even tho youre a bit confused about how it all work<3 we will help<3 take lots of care and i hope you enjoy it here!!!
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 2,103 Boards Champion
    Welcome! <3
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  • JustVJustV Community Manager Posts: 5,612 Part of The Furniture
    Welcome aboard, @_AJ_!

    I'm Mike, one of the mods you'll see drifting through every now and again. :)
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 117 The Mix Convert
    Shaunie said:
    Heyy AJ and welcome!

    Everyones nice and welcoming! If youre confused about anything just post it here on in the help desk here. And we will help you out! Can be a little bit confused to start with. Many of us struggle with these challenges are youre not alone! I struggle with an eating disorder i would say its okay atm bit times it goes bad. And if you post where you think it fits - then its most likely correct and if not the mix will move it for you anyway. 

    Also Love your picture!!  Youre brave for maki your first post even tho youre a bit confused about how it all work<3 we will help<3 take lots of care and i hope you enjoy it here!!!
    Hey @Shaunie
    thanks :) I’m starting to muddle my way around I think! 
    Sorry to hear you struggle too. I’ve been a lot worse recently and am feeling really low with it. It’s triggered a lot of other problems too currently... 
    thanks- big Winnie the Pooh fan and thought it was sweet :)) 
    Aj xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Welcome to the boards!
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