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alia_nm95alia_nm95 Posts: 2 Newbie
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hi there 
umm im alia, im 25 years old 
i graduated as a civil engineer at March /2019 
ummm i have so many problems with my dad.. so i have problems like depression, anxiety, self hurm 
i can't stay in any relation for a long time, after i broke up with my boyfriend cuze he was cheating 
i have a job, friends, mom, sister but i can't talk to anyone, I'm the one who always try to be strong and who didn't have any problems 


when i was 10 years old, i had sexual harassment from my cousin, my dad and mom didn't know anything about that until this day. 

i can't say anything cuze they will kill me or unbelieve me. 

at 2016 i try to skip from my family's home, and i travel to UAE, After 1 year and half my dad ask the police to make me come back by force. 

today, i don't have any feelings for anything or anyone 
i can't accept any relationship with sex, i can't trust people, i hate my life, i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't feel my achievements even if everyone celebrate 
my mind killing me. 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Welcome to the the mix!

    I'm sorry things seem so rough for you. I do hope we can offer you kindness and support 💜
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Heyy ! 

    Welcome <3 that sounds like a lot of challenges so glad youre here cause shouldnt have to be alone. Hope we can help. Also maybe writing them in health and wellbeing or sex and relationships as may get more sort of support replies on those challenges.  

    Take care and let us know how we can support you <3 x
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    JustVJustV Community Manager Posts: 5,306 Part of The Furniture
    edited January 2020
    Hey @alia_nm95, and welcome to the community. Really glad you found us.

    It sounds like you've been on (and are still on) a real rollercoaster. Any one of those things you mentioned in your post would be a lot to deal with, let alone all of them at once. It's a real achievement to get where you are and you've done the right thing to look for some support.

    As @Shaunie said, you can create dedicated conversations for these things in the main support forums (e.g. Health & Wellbeing, Sex & Relationships) - please do that because it sounds like there are things here really worth discussing.

    A lot of folks here will be able to relate to what you're going through. This is a safe space for you to share a bit more and talk if/when you'd like to. :)
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