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alia_nm95alia_nm95 Posts: 2 Literally just got here
hi there 
umm im alia, im 25 years old 
i graduated as a civil engineer at March /2019 
ummm i have so many problems with my dad.. so i have problems like depression, anxiety, self hurm 
i can't stay in any relation for a long time, after i broke up with my boyfriend cuze he was cheating 
i have a job, friends, mom, sister but i can't talk to anyone, I'm the one who always try to be strong and who didn't have any problems 

when i was 10 years old, i had sexual harassment from my cousin, my dad and mom didn't know anything about that until this day. 

i can't say anything cuze they will kill me or unbelieve me. 

at 2016 i try to skip from my family's home, and i travel to UAE, After 1 year and half my dad ask the police to make me come back by force. 

today, i don't have any feelings for anything or anyone 
i can't accept any relationship with sex, i can't trust people, i hate my life, i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't feel my achievements even if everyone celebrate 
my mind killing me. 


  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 8,498 Legendary Poster
    Welcome to the the mix!

    I'm sorry things seem so rough for you. I do hope we can offer you kindness and support 💜

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m ✨dead✨ England 🏠Posts: 11,005 An Original Mixlorian
    Heyy ! 

    Welcome <3 that sounds like a lot of challenges so glad youre here cause shouldnt have to be alone. Hope we can help. Also maybe writing them in health and wellbeing or sex and relationships as may get more sort of support replies on those challenges.  

    Take care and let us know how we can support you <3 x
    𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮. 𝐒𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝. 💕💕
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  • MikeMike Screen addict 🎮 LondonPosts: 2,804 Community Manager
    edited January 11
    Hey @alia_nm95, and welcome to the community. Really glad you found us.

    It sounds like you've been on (and are still on) a real rollercoaster. Any one of those things you mentioned in your post would be a lot to deal with, let alone all of them at once. It's a real achievement to get where you are and you've done the right thing to look for some support.

    As @Shaunie said, you can create dedicated conversations for these things in the main support forums (e.g. Health & Wellbeing, Sex & Relationships) - please do that because it sounds like there are things here really worth discussing.

    A lot of folks here will be able to relate to what you're going through. This is a safe space for you to share a bit more and talk if/when you'd like to. :)
    All behaviour is a need trying to be met.
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