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Coping strategies for young carers
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Hi again everyone on the boards! In case you've missed my last couple of threads (here and here) I've been helping The Mix with their Young Carer's Awareness project and this week I'm going to be talking about coping strategies for managing stress and emotional exhaustion. We'd love for you to share if you or someone you know is a young carer, but as you can guess this topic is a little bit more serious than the last two so feel free not to respond if it makes you uncomfortable. I'm gonna jump right in and talk about some of the things that help me feel better when everything's getting on top of me. Mind you these coping techniques aren't going to work for everyone but they're what help me get through tough times. 🙂
There are times when having to care for my mum can stress me out or upset me, especially when I've had a particularly busy week I can get overwhelmed and upset. I think it's important for just about anyone to have some time off and really focus on themselves for a little while. This can be pretty difficult as a young carer but I'm lucky that my dad is able to pick up some of the slack when I'm not feeling so good. Just taking some time to sit in my room and maybe watch a movie by myself or play one of my favourite video games can do wonders for helping me recharge my batteries so to speak. It's also so important to have a good support circle around you, people you can depend upon and talk to when things are getting to be too much. Like I mentioned my dad is able to help but I also have my sister who I can talk to about near enough anything and I have some pretty great friends who will always listen to me when I need to get something off my chest. When all else fails I can always turn to animal therapy and give one our pets a good long cuddle!
Being a young carer is tough there's no doubt about that but little things like this can help get through tough times. So what kinds of coping strategies have you or someone you know come up with while being a carer?
As I said before it can be a little upsetting to talk about but we'd really love to hear what you have to say! What you share might even help someone out there who's struggling at the moment, I certainly hope I have. ❤️
As I said before it can be a little upsetting to talk about but we'd really love to hear what you have to say! What you share might even help someone out there who's struggling at the moment, I certainly hope I have. ❤️
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Over the years, I think the most important thing I have learnt is that you should always practice self-care and do not push yourself past your limits otherwise you can become unwell yourself with stress.
Coping strategies I have personally used to manage stress/exhaustion include: