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Have to say thats a bit harsh
I have that problem too! I know it's no help now, but you will meet someone nice soon
Replace 'men' with 'women'
Is it just as 'ok' to say that?
Cheer up, there'll be someone else for you.
Bloody hell I was only joking! Don't tell me none of you have ever made generalised comments about members of the opposite sex when a mate's been dumped or whatever, to try and make them feel better/to lighten the mood.
why did this turn into a male bashing frenzy???
the guy was honest, he could have led her on but instead told the truth.........................isn't that a good thing although not the desired outcome???
*confused*
I'm sorry.
Anyway, men aren't all bad. Not all men walk over and use women. I'm trying to find an example to proove this and actually finding it quite difficult... which I suppose really doesn't help... but trust me, there are decent men out there.
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Don't worry, we don't mean it really!
Oh right, so if a mate of mine got dumped by an Asian girl, that makes it OK for me to start saying all Asians are scum etc etc
Have another :rolleyes:
Yes it was the right thing for him to do, and yes I'm sure blonde__batman appreciates that. But it still doesn't stop her feeling disappointed and let down. It probably took a lot of guts and a lot of 'well I'm pretty sure he likes me's for her to let him know how she felt, and to ask him how he felt. And if everyone else has been telling her that he like's her, of course she's going to feel let down.
Have you never, ever in your life said to yourself/a friend that 'women are bitches' or anything similar, when you or your friend is feeling let down and hurt, regardless of whether she did the right thing or not?
It's one thing to cuddle someone and say "men suck" in the privacy of someone's own home, or even by PM or MSN.
It's something else to come on an open internet thingy and start saying men are scum of the earth.
For a start, it's against the rules of the whole thing.
And second, men rule
It...Was...A...Joke!! I don't actually think that all men are scum! Some are, some aren't. And doubtless some Asians are scum, and some aren't.
I'm sorry but I don't believe you've never made a light hearted generalisation ever in your entire life. If I'm wrong, and you honestly haven't, then you must be some kind of superhuman because everyone does it; it doesn't mean they genuinely believe it. Have you never said or laughed at a blonde joke? Or any joke offensive to anyone?
dont feel bad skateside...i wud have asked him anyway because it did look like he liked me
Yeah, but none of the guys on here are rude bwoys
yep thats him..his names james..u were close tho
.......................yep.....................didnt make it right tho..............
ah it doesnt matter sure i'll join in:
B_B, the guy is a member of a malicious, thoughtless and cold-hearted gender that is male-dom. quite clearly he is without the capability of recognising what a fantastic opportunity he blindly turned down. It is with an absolute conviction that i can say at some point in the future he will live to regret his callous decision which is a reflection of the idiotic and erratic nature of men, for which i apologise profusely.
happy l_l??
was that a dig at me? ive not slagged off men at all
Why is it different? The same thing is still being said, people can chose to take it seriously if they are that obsessive about political correctness. It's still a jokey comment with the sole purpose of trying to cheer someone up even slightly when they feel let down. It's not like I'm trying to convert the world's women into a huge lesbian cult now is it. :rolleyes:
And no. As BeckyBoo would say, we just let you think you do
no lil_laura, you've suffered enough
Did i say they were rude boys? No.
Right, so if I said all Asians or all Chinese people were scum when something similar happened, I could just pass it off as a joke?
Where did I say I hadn't? Put it this way, if I went on and said women were the scum of the Earth, I'd get slagged off by every single female on here. And get banned.
No, because blonde jokes aren't funny to me. Anyway, you didn't make a joke, you made a statement saying men are the scum of the Earth.
I'm not saying what I said was right, or true, or anything else. I'm just saying that I doubt any of you are in a position to critise me for what I said, because you've all probably done the same at some point.
And. It. Was. Just. A. JOKE
:crying:
Take a chill pill. It's summer and it's sunny and men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
Trust me, people like me, Kieran and others are most definetly not obsessive about poltical corectness.
Equal Opportunities you want? Hmmm
What a stupid fucking comment.
I never said you said they were. The point was, rude bwoys say things like that, guys on here don't.
What would be the point on telling someone "Men/women are scum"? What are you trying to do, upset them further? "Yeah, they're scum, so don't bother keeping any hope that you'll find a decent one, 'cause there are none. Instead you'll die old and alone. With lots of cats."