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boy likes another girl...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
hey everyone who reads this...
OK, i admit i'm youngggg (11 years old!) but i used to go out with REALLY cute guy, (for 1 year and a half) but we recently broke up due to him loving another girl that HATES him!

i have to say, i am upset because of this. i am planning a way to get him back...any tips?!?

wait....should i just forget him? move on? find a better guy? help meeee!!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're 11. Go, with your friends, play with make-up, read magazines, do your hair, do all the stuff 11 year olds should do, enjoy your childhood and leave boys til you're older. I have all these problems and i feel like im too young to be dealing with it all (at 22!), so you definately are.

    Also, if he left you for another girl, he's not worth your time or energy. Forget him and move on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok.... i suppose you're right! thanks, but one little question... he keeps coming back to me (this has happened something like 12 times) apologizing to me saying he won't leave me again.... how do i ignore that?!?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    moneyhead!!! wrote: »
    ok.... i suppose you're right! thanks, but one little question... he keeps coming back to me (this has happened something like 12 times) apologizing to me saying he won't leave me again....

    Isn't that what you originally wanted?

    moneyhead!!! wrote: »
    how do i ignore that?!?

    You don't ignore it. You tell him that he blew his chance and that he shall leave you alone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK, it's just... hard... i was with him for a while.

    The clouds can't hide the sun...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    never mind....

    never mind
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're 11. Go out and play. At your age, you don't even have a sexual identity, that's a biological fact, stop pretending that this is a serious relationship. You're children.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fiend_85 wrote: »
    You're 11. Go out and play. At your age, you don't even have a sexual identity, that's a biological fact, stop pretending that this is a serious relationship. You're children.


    i may be young but i am VERY mature, having a 'relationship' just makes me feel better about myself. ik it's not a 'serious relationship', but i want it kinda firm....if u get wut i mean!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not even slightly. In fact, I'm starting to think you're just here to troll.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and u mean by that?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fiend_85 wrote: »
    Not even slightly. In fact, I'm starting to think you're just here to troll.

    I dunno. Even when I was in my last year of high school (8 years ago) and hadn't really had anything approaching a serious relationship, there were kids that I knew in year 7 who had been in year-long relationships.

    It creeps me out a little, though. Did even then.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know kids do this whole "OMFG I have the CUTEST b/f EVA!!11ones" but have you seen what this user has posted in the sex boards?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    frankipanda wrote: »
    I dunno. Even when I was in my last year of high school (8 years ago) and hadn't really had anything approaching a serious relationship, there were kids that I knew in year 7 who had been in year-long relationships.

    It creeps me out a little, though. Did even then.

    Yea same but they were not what i would call 'real relationships'. It was kids trying to prove they were 'cool' by having a boy/girlfriend, yet they never even spoke to them from one day to the other. And yes, this was 11/12 year olds not even the younger ones
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha!
    frankipanda wrote: »
    I dunno. Even when I was in my last year of high school (8 years ago) and hadn't really had anything approaching a serious relationship, there were kids that I knew in year 7 who had been in year-long relationships.

    It creeps me out a little, though. Did even then.

    lol franki!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my friend asked me to post that, don't bother lookin' at it
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Fiend_85 wrote: »
    Not even slightly. In fact, I'm starting to think you're just here to troll.

    Just a friendly reminder that open troll accusations aren't welcome here. If you have any concerns, then PM a mod. :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry,

    Can I skip PMing you this time?
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