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Interestring, the exact opposite has happened with me and my ex, I joined Facebook after our relationship ended in Sept and soon after he was asking for me to be his friend on Facebook, I was a bit reluctant but after about a month I went ahead and added him. I figured I had no reason not to be a friend. We chat on their everyday but I prefer to keep it as an on line thing and not to see him in person. I did meet him twice after our break up and if just felt uncomfortable to me. The end of our relationship was mutual or it was at the begining, I am not so sure now. Now I am dating again and the new guy is also on Facebook. A few times the ex has wanted to know where I am going or exactly what I am doing and I just give him a vague response because really since our relationship is no more it's none of his business and I don't want him to feel hurt either. I do think he knows I am seeing someone else at this point because he isn't as chatty with me as he once was. He even posted one night last week asking if he could call me to chat over the phone and I told him no it's just best to do that on here. Moving on is really hard at this point because I do really still care about my ex and this gives me more to think about.....maybe I would be better not having the contact even on FB?
She actually did send me a message last night, though it was pretty devoid of emotion. Just a simple message online saying "heard about skye [my dog that was put down yesterday], hope you're ok".
I took heart from the fact that loads of my friends were nice about it though. Still, baby steps .