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Why cant i cum?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks

    Normally i dont think of masturbating in sex i wil try leaving masturbating and have sex in a few weeks or somet i have tryed many positions for sex but i will try as you said.I do think of sexy things in sex but it doesent work most of the time.i have only had 1 time when i got cum witch was when i was 13.Wered u cant cum when u need the toilet.My girlfriend agreed to have sex in a week or two so its:thumb: 's up for me i hope.Thanks Alex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i cant still!

    Well it turned out to be 1 week =1 hour so i did i tried everything you told me to do and i did not cum at all i tried many positions thinking of sexy stuf etc etc.IT DID NOT WORK!. i tried with another girlfriend(i have 2 .they know each other n i don't cheat on them) and i didn't get anything except for a rock hard cock as i always get.So why is this???:confused: .
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its better than cumming while your still undressing :thumb:

    You may have a career as a pornstar.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Alex, how much foreplay does she spend on you? Foreplay should be there to 'get you going' and the usual sign of your level of 'readiness' would be the production of loads of pre-cum (some guys don't pre-cum so don't worry if you don't).

    Also, you could try fucking her for a while - and then stop when she is near orgasm. Use the break in the proceedings for her to suck and wank you (or even wank yourself while you lick her out) until you ALMOST reach orgasm ... then penetrate her for the final few thrusts.

    You probably need to try a variety of things to help you reach that point of no return.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ...

    Well she spends alot of foreplay on me witch im comfortable with, she makes it verry loving and calm:heart: . I do fuck her for a while and do wht you say but for-some reason i cant cum. why the hell is dis:confused::confused::confused: .
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alexx-2010 wrote: »
    Well she spends alot of foreplay on me witch im comfortable with, she makes it verry loving and calm:heart: . I do fuck her for a while and do wht you say but for-some reason i cant cum. why the hell is dis:confused::confused::confused: .

    *sighs wearily* Ok ... come around to my place and I'll make you cum.

    Hahaha! Teasin'

    Did you say that you CAN'T even cum when you wank? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe you're body isn't just ready yet.

    I was late before I started being able to cum.

    Speak to the doc if you're worried mate, that's the best thing you can do, definitely.

    Did puberty start normal time etc?
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    I doubt stress and worry about it is helping to be honest, you need to try and keep calm! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I love how it didn't work with one girlfriend, so you tried it with the other :lol:

    Why do you have two girlfriends? And why don't they care? :confused:

    As someone else said, you're maybe just not producing semen yet or something, don't worry yourself about it anyway till you're a little older, for now it's less mess which is a bonus :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes i have tried withe the other girlfriend.
    I have two girlfriends because there Sisters. I do not have a clue why they don't care,i just think its weird.

    Well i couldn't cum at 15 im 16 in 5 days:birthday: and puberty started fine so :confused: .
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have allready spoke to doc he said it was confusing

    Yep i did start puberty normal time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes i did, when i wank i do not cum ether.
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    alexx-2010 wrote: »
    I have two girlfriends because there Sisters. I do not have a clue why they don't care,i just think its weird.

    I wonder if they share hints and tips and reviews.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alexx-2010 wrote: »
    yes i did, when i wank i do not cum ether.

    So you have never experienced an orgasm? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you feel pleasureable sensations when you have sex or masturbate? Can you remember how it felt when you last had an orgasm, and have you felt any of those similar feelings (tingly, waves of pleasure, etc)?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes i can

    i dont feel anything when i masturbate.I can just about remember how it felt,but still i haven't felt anything similar to it:banghead: . Why is it me!! a my m8s can cum (some of dem are 14). i just feel left out in someway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes i have when i was younger only 1 time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does any semen come out but you don't get the sensation of orgasm? Or do you neither orgasm or shoot semen? Do you ever wake up wet from a wet dream while you have been sleeping?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no i dont get any semon or orgasm i get nothink.I dont wake up wet ether evan from a wet dream.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You are a bit under-age:rolleyes: ... aren't ya?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok Alex, you need to go and see your doctor.

    This is NOT normal - but it does occur.

    If you aren't on any drugs (legal or illegal) and have no history of physical injuries (e.g. spinal injuries) this can be a pathological issue which your doctor can sort out.

    The quicker you see your doctor, the quicker you can have it resolved and the quicker you can start experiencing normal sexual sensation.

    Don't be scared or worried. It's treatable. But see you doctor asap.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    numb wrote: »
    You are a bit under-age:rolleyes: ... aren't ya?

    That's neither here nor there. At 15, he should be able to orgasm and ejaculate. He can't do either.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe its Psychological?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Willy_Wonka wrote: »
    Maybe its Psychological?

    There are a couple of medical terms for what he might have that I know of (which are not psychological) - but its not for me to diagnose him even though they seem to fit his symptoms. Whatever the reason, he needs to see the doctor.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't know if this will help as I'm 20 years older than you but I've learned to specifically train myself to not cum. I last longer, she loves it more, she gets hornier which means I get even more benefits...I won't go in to detail but unless it's going to make you late for school/college/uni/work or whatever, keeping it going for longer benefits you both....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Glenn Quagmire wrote: »
    Don't know if this will help as I'm 20 years older than you but I've learned to specifically train myself to not cum. I last longer, she loves it more, she gets hornier which means I get even more benefits...I won't go in to detail but unless it's going to make you late for school/college/uni/work or whatever, keeping it going for longer benefits you both....

    Did you READ the entire post? :) He has only ever cum once in his whole life .. and he's 15. He can neither cum or orgasm. This is a lot more to do than prolonging performance. He needs to see a doctor!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And I'm saying that it's not always a bad thing...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Glenn Quagmire wrote: »
    And I'm saying that it's not always a bad thing...

    I must say, I'm completely with Teagan on this one. The guy is 15 and has only had one orgasm and clearly feels uncomfortable about his situation or he wouldn't be posting.

    It may not be a bad thing for a guy to be able to last in bed or prolong ejaculation; however what is a bad thing is not being able to be in position to make that chose in the first place.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aw mate that really sucks.
    I know it will be an embarrassing thing to talk about, but I do think you should see a doctor.
    I have had times when I haven't been able to ejaculate but most of the time I can.
    Maybe somehow you have become infertile? You need some medical attention.
    Hope it all goes alright man.
    x Andy
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