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I really admire you, Amilie. If I was in your position I wouldn't be able to cope at all and I would have caved under pressure and had an abortion by now.
I wish I lived closer to you so I could come and give you the hugs and support you need/deserve.
You are not worthless, worthless are the girls who did this to you.
I hope everyones comments on here give you some comfort and show you that people do care about you. I think it goes to show how worthwhile boards like this are when you see how much support people can give and receive.
Chin up Amilie, you will look back on this one day and feel so proud of yourself i'm sure of it.
I mean you are an adult & having a baby isn't something to be attacked for! Society is gone to the dogs. All I can say is keep your evidence- it's a good idea to record the messages on your phone. Hope you are feeling better soon xxx
Ive been following you're posts but i can't find the words to help but i will say this i admire you're courage you're a very strong person, Keep going hun and don't give up.
Love and hugs for you. ((((HUG))))
hope you are doing well, please let us know!
So what is the Social Services' stance on this? Yes, you may well be sixteen and, therefore, allowed to live by yourself, but you're still not an adult, officially and are ultimately still the responsibility of your parents or legal guardian. Also, it's clear that your very fragile mentally and that your under constant risk of being attacked, which also puts your baby in danger. Your year head is doing her best, but really, this is a bigger issue than for just her or the school to deal with. It cannot go on, not just for your sake, but for the babies sake. I really do recommend that perhaps Socially Services could look into putting you in with a foster family, as your parents' neglect of you is disgraceful. Also, I really do suggest you now get the police to investigate, considering that the intimation as predictably evolved into physical attacks.
We felt we should post in this thread just to explain what's been going on behind the scenes with Amilie over the last week.
We contacted Amilie to discuss some concerns that had been raised by the information we hold on the website. This had identified that multiple accounts were being used from the same computer which didn't seem possible in the circumstances.
We decided that we needed to discuss these inconsistencies with Amilie and approached her by PM. Up until this point we'd already been in contact with Amilie via PM to provide support and discuss the decision to close her first thread.
To reassure anyone who isn't aware of how we work, we made it clear that our aim was to understand the inconsistencies but still encourage her to receive support through this website.
Unfortunately Amilie hasn't replied to the issues we raised and indeed hasn't been online since reading the message.
As a result we have taken the decision to close her account, since without a clear explanation of the situation we can?t be sure of the validity of this account. Her account has only just been closed today - she hasn't been stopped from posting until now.
We hope you understand that this action is something we do with a heavy heart, clearly Amilie was someone in need of support and did benefit from the help you all provided. The support you?ve shown is something to be very proud of, regardless of this conclusion.
We couldn't, after looking at the information our servers stored, continue to allow Amilie to post without addressing the situation. I'm sorry that people have been concerned by Amilie's silence since we contacted her but before taking any action we wanted to give her a fair amount of time to respond.
We're aware that this kind of occurrence can be distressing so we will leave this thread open if you have any comments or questions. We may not be able to answer them all but we can at least give you the chance to ask them.
We really admire and value the ongoing support you provide to each other through TheSite, I hope this situation doesn?t affect that in the future.
Jim
I'm afraid that wouldn't come close to explaining the problems we saw when we looked at when certain posts were made and who the posts were made by
someone explain!
Long story short, Amilie and her alleged bullies are one and the same.
I know im confused i don't get it ? What it could of all been made up? Coudn't some of friends been posting pretending be her? :nervous:
Yup. This.
It might not ALL be made up, but the same person made all those posts.
Oh right thank u i get it now god i sounded thick he he .God that girl got some mental health issues.i still hope she ok though
Aye. Obviously she does have some issues the boards could have helped her with, so it's a shame she felt she had to do this.
Although I might add that this is not the first time things like this have happened, and after coming clean, the posters stuck around and are now valuable members of the community.
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