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its quite clear really: listen to what people are saying or ignore it and put yourself in a worse position or make the right choice - and you can make that choice even if you dont think you can. Not that i xpect you to really take note of this post, just remember the links because you will need them.
Bollocks. Absolute fucking bollocks. Sorry, but you caused nothing. Tell him to die in a fire.
doubtful, sounds like he is manipulating u and using u tbh.
just going to try to move on but not sure how i can
sorry
Please stop saying sorry.
Don't let anyone tell you what you want and don't let anyone make you feel like you owe them simply because you did not want to do something. It's your life after all and I'm sure there are plenty of guys that are a million times better that that jackass.
You say 'apparently' which is different to saying 'definitetly'. Seeing as I have being having anal sex for years and don't have hemorrhoids, I can safely say that yours are unlikely to be caused by anal sex. Move on now. There isn't anything to see here.
Yes, that can be true but its only a small minority of people affected who may have weak anal lining anyway .. and also endulging in pretty rough anal sex. As I said before, if anal sex did cause piles, the hospitals would be filled with ailing homosexuals - which they're not.
OK fair enough. It's good for a 'bummer' to get confirmation from a 'bummee'
Oh! I'm a bummer too! AC/DC is far better!
Have you ever had anything up there? bar things that are supposed to be there
OK well a few years ago I was up to my nostrils on absinthe and this crazy woman I was seeing decided to crack open her strap on. I think she managed about 7 seconds before I farted her out - never ever EVER again. But it was a long time ago and I was so monged I can't remember anything other than I did NOT like it...:crazyeyes
A couple of weeks ago I experienced that. She put a finger up there whilst giving me head and it was the most incredible sensation. I couldn't move or feel my face for about five minutes afterwards
And her comment was (whilst I just lay there going 'Holy fuck!!'): "Now you know what a female orgasm feels like" hehehe.
Best orgasm I ever had, bar none. Would recommend
LOL well given that I think anal sex should be approached in a gentler, more relaxed manner I'm not suprised!
I think a lot of people are nervous about it so getting rat arsed and shoving a strap on up there would be enough to put most people off
^^ does that not make you the tiniest bit interested in revisiting Quagmire?
Good god no. I just find the notion of being the 'submissive' (I don't mean that in a bondage way...) partner to be just...wrong. I am the giver, that's the only way I'm comfortable. Other than a BJ I don't really like to receive anything, I prefer to do all the work while she (and yes, it'll always be a 'she'...) just lays there. Or bends over. Or tries to get out of the boot.
That's fair enough I suppose. I do find it a bit odd that hetero blokes are quite often so against the idea of having anything up their own bum but quite happy to stick stuff up their partners. Especially when it sounds like ti can be quite... fun!
Oh I prefer giving, in the overall scheme of things. But when I am receiving, why not make it as good as possible?
Oh absolutely! Certain positions are better than others for that to happen, though.