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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    Now, any good recommendations for some light and possibly non extreme reading? :yum:


    Christina Hoff Summers (herself a feminist much derided by other feminists) wrote a good book called The War Against Boys which shows the abuses of feminist power, Professing Feminism: Education and Indoctrination in Women's Studies and Professing Feminism: Cautionary Tales from inside the Strange World of Women's Studies by Daphne Patai and someone else I can't remember.

    Combined with reading stuff from the likes of Dworkin and Greer etc (even if it's just for the humour value), you should have plenty to think about. All of it is fairly light and shouldn't require much in the way of brain strain.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Interesting feminist books...

    Bell Hooks - Ain't I a Woman (on Black feminism... it's fascinating and eye opening and also offers a critique of the white feminist movement)

    Naomi Wolf - Beauty Myth

    Ariel Levy - Female Chauvanist Pigs (not an amazing read... but thought provoking)

    Germaine Greer - The Female Eunach (admittedly, ain't read that)

    Simone de Beauvoir - The Second Sex (haven't read it either... will start it in a few weeks, but have been told this is one of the best)

    Judith Orr - Sexism in the System (an introduction to Socialist Feminism and a very light read. She is also the editor of Socialist Review)

    If you're interested in gender in general and a challenge to the conventional gender binary (and if you aren't easily embarassed to read sexually explicit material) check out Kate Bornstein's work. She's a MTF transexual and a brilliant writer. fascinating character.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    The reason I debate with the feminism definition is simply because feminism is about women. That's not to say ever that feminists are not interested in men race or whatever, in fact I'd argue they're far more likely to be interested in civil rights universally than those who are not feminists.
    Feminism is about gender relations and the equality of women... Just like the civil rights movement was about race relations and the equality of black people. So of course it would have a gynocentric focus. Also note how the majority of literature out there is written by men, especially regarding history. It is still largely a 'male world' we live in, even more so it was in the 60s.

    Feminism gave women a voice and still gives women voices. That is incredibly important for emancipation.
    And Jim, I agree with what you're saying but I was speculating why people get angry at or prejudge feminists. Simply because it's those extreme (but often 'noisy') organised movements that people encounter.
    I disagree. It's because people misinterpret what feminism is, feel threatened, or just go with right wing media interpretations. Feminism is really broad... You get a massive variation. But yeah, some idiots probably do get more attention, the same with some Muslim clerics, or some socialists... annoying innit. :(

    And Namaste, I suppose also it depends what you define as anti-man. There's plenty of times I've been the butt of a 'typical man' comment and I personally find that anti-man, and often by so called feminists.
    Sure... "Typical man" is no different to saying "typical white" or "typical Jew" or "typical homo". It's a sad world we live in where people attack each other about gender, the size or slackness of sex organs and gender stereotypes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    J.S. Mill-On the Subjection of Women is where you want to start, way ahead of its time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »

    I have yet to meet an anti-male feminist and coming from where I do and where I hang out (some very feminist orientated places), that says a lot.

    And yet you recommend Germaine Greer as reading material?
    And am sure many other 'feminists' agree with that. Feminism is about equality of the sexes. How can anybody disagree with that?

    Unpack the loaded meaning of social, political and economic equality and its easy to disagree with. Equal opportunities, certainly most people would agree with that (something which already exists), but there is a critical difference between equality of opportunity and equality itself.
    I disagree. It's because people misinterpret what feminism is, feel threatened, or just go with right wing media interpretations. Feminism is really broad... You get a massive variation. But yeah, some idiots probably do get more attention, the same with some Muslim clerics, or some socialists... annoying innit.

    You mean like the idiot you've just recommended reading? And if feminism incorporates such a wide variation of views, how then can you define it as seeking equality when evidently within that variation exist those misandrists who believe in supremacy, not equality? As I said numerous times on this thread...you have to find the common denominator to define a movement's aims - surely you would agree?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Spliffie wrote: »
    And yet you recommend Germaine Greer as reading material?
    Yes I would. Have you as much in depth and extensive knowledge of Greer as you do on the Beauty Myth?

    Unpack the loaded meaning of social, political and economic equality and its easy to disagree with. Equal opportunities, certainly most people would agree with that (something which already exists), but there is a critical difference between equality of opportunity and equality itself.
    Do explain...
    You mean like the idiot you've just recommended reading?
    Please do go on and explain why she is an idiot. And I recommended it because it's one of the more famous books.
    And if feminism incorporates such a wide variation of views, how then can you define it as seeking equality when evidently within that variation exist those misandrists who believe in supremacy, not equality?
    Because you can be a feminist and a misandrist, just like you can be a socialist and a racist. Some feminists hate men, some will also be racist, or anti-Semetic. Just because a woman is a feminist, does not make her a misandrist, just like if you're a misandrist, that doesn't make you a feminist.
    As I said numerous times on this thread...you have to find the common denominator to define a movement's aims - surely you would agree?
    Which movement? You being an expert on feminism would obviously understand that there have been several movements for the liberation of women and that there continue to be movements for this aim. No two movements are the same, other than they are in the interests of women's emancipation.

    That is the common denominator. And which movement was specifically misandristic?
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do think there's a point being missed here somewhere...

    You can read all the dictionaries in the world to see what they define feminism as, you can read all the feminist literature in the world to try and discover what feminism actually means. But at the end of the day, a word and peoples reactions to it are defined by what the lay person on the street who hasn't got the time or inclination to read hundreds of books on the subject believes a word means, rather than its 'true' definition. From my experience, the average person on the street would define feminism as a movement for women's rights, with little or no regard for men's rights. The rant assumes that the general public defines feminism in the same way that the dictionary does. If the general understanding out there about feminism is that it is a movement which oppresses men, is it any wonder that the average person in the street wants to distance themselves from it? We're in a time which promotes equality, and feminism does not suggest equality to many people, it suggests women's rights over men's.
    I'm with shyboy on this one, even the word feminism is biased towards women and doesn't suggest equality to many people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If the general understanding out there about feminism is that it is a movement which oppresses men, is it any wonder that the average person in the street wants to distance themselves from it? We're in a time which promotes equality, and feminism does not suggest equality to many people, it suggests women's rights over men's.
    I'm with shyboy on this one, even the word feminism is biased towards women and doesn't suggest equality to many people.

    Just because nine out of ten people think that a yam is a casava, does not make a yam a casava. Just because a few people use casva in a dish which traditionally used yam, does not make a yam a casava.

    If people want to make a huge generalisation and criticism about feminism which holds more ground, they would be better to say that so many feminist writings can be considered ethnocentric... A statement which is far more intelligent and far more observant than the victim-complex argument that feminists are oppressing men or wish to.

    Again, whilst this criticism could be made especially with the fight for women's suffrage in the USA, feminist movements will be different elsewhere.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Namaste, have you read that article by Greer?

    Still consider her good reading?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    Namaste, have you read that article by Greer?

    Still consider her good reading?

    Why wouldn't I? it was an interesting article.

    I could post up the SCUM Manifesto and it would have no real point as to proving or disproving what feminism is.

    You don't have to agree with everything somebody says to find them interesting reading.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Namaste wrote: »
    Why wouldn't I? it was an interesting article.

    I could post up the SCUM Manifesto and it would have no real point as to proving or disproving what feminism is.

    You don't have to agree with everything somebody says to find them interesting reading.

    If it had been a bloke writing about how women are the cause of the worlds problems, how women are surplus to requirements and that women dream of a world without men you'd be up in arms tellign us all what a mysogynst the writer was.
    Instead you say it was an "intresting article".


    Don't you see this is precisely the reason why people are reluctant to call thesmelves feminists and the reason why people look at feminism with such suspicion. Because of articles like this and idiots such as Greer the lines between feminism and misandry are blurred. If Greer's not the best person to champion the true meaning of femisism why is there so much support for her, or certinaly lack of critism?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    If it had been a bloke writing about how women are the cause of the worlds problems, how women are surplus to requirements and that women dream of a world without men you'd be up in arms tellign us all what a mysogynst the writer was.
    Instead you say it was an "intresting article".
    Please don't put words in my mouth.

    No I wouldn't... I'd challenge it, but wouldn't throw my toys out of the pram... Why? Because freedom of speech is golden (even for the BNP and anti-semite like Irving in my view). You don't know me, so it's pretty unfair to assume how I will react, no?

    Men do cause the majority of the problems in the world and why? Because men have power. White people were responsible for colonialism... Why? because white people were in the position to colonise.

    I don't see this issue with that and object more to Greer's position on sexuality than on the fact that the majority of shit that goes in happens because of the people in power who mostly are men.

    Maybe it would be the same, worse, or better if women were in control. We just don't know because it hasn't happened...

    But let's face it... Men make the rules in the majority of circumstances... Men rape, men start wars, men rule the churches, in most countries men are the leaders and so on... But ignoring the biological determinist argument that it is genetic, it is more likely that it has to do with power relations than anything.

    That is not misandry, that is fact. If you want to pull out statistics which say otherwise then go ahead.

    The world was fucked up by white men and it continues to be fucked up by (mostly) white men, or dictators that white men are supporting or helped to put in to power. Increasingly, in a few countries women are gaining more control, but one fact still remains...

    It's a man's world.

    And that is my view, being a feminist who believes in female equality. However, this is not an issue of working towards equality, but a realisation of a global hegemony which exists to benefit a certain group.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    If it had been a bloke writing about how women are the cause of the worlds problems, how women are surplus to requirements and that women dream of a world without men you'd be up in arms tellign us all what a mysogynst the writer was.
    Instead you say it was an "intresting article".

    To be fair she's actually saying that it would be a massively negative thing to have a world without men. She's arguing against a biological seperatism, not in favour of it.
    Professor Steve Jones's new book Y: The Descent Of Men is much harder on men than I am. Imagine the fuss if I had said, "The chromosome unique to men is a microscopic metaphor of those who bear it, for it is the most decayed, redundant and parasitic of the lot." Men are surplus to requirements, but so what? Human beings don't exist for any ulterior purpose but in and of themselves. The audience for male display, whether in dance or song or fine plumage or bower-building, is female. None of the spectacular male craziness we see around us every day is necessary and some of it is lethal, but much of it is wonderful, compelling, awesome. For whatever reason, women are more heterosexual than men, perhaps because they build men's bodies inside their own. Mothers are more indulgent to their sons than their daughters. Women would find a world without men flat and savourless; it is men who dream of a world without women

    And to be fair Skive, you described the article as interesting reading so I don't see why namaste should be unable to describe it as an interesting article.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Jim V wrote: »
    To be fair she's actually saying that it would be a massively negative thing to have a world without men. She's arguing against a biological seperatism, not in favour of it.

    It's an attack on men in general.

    "Men are more trouble than they're worth"
    "Men dream of a world without women"

    Common, it's misandry. Acknowledge it when you see it.
    Jim V wrote: »
    And to be fair Skive, you described the article as interesting reading so I don't see why namaste should be unable to describe it as an interesting article.

    Well to be fair Jim, I wasn't the one that suggested Greer as good reading on the issue of feminism. My stnce on that articale was pretty clear, Namaste's wasn't. What has the article got to do with the idea of equality - nothing. It's rant about the evils of men.


    An Namaste I can accept that a lot of the worlds troubles in recent history were caused by white men, but as you say it's because they're that have generally held the power to create them. It's has noting to do with being white though, or having a penis.

    I don't think many woudl disagree with the statement that Muslims represent the biggest terrorist threat in the world today, but that's not an excuse to bash muslims in general?

    I don't have an issue with equality of the sexes. You don't need to spout man hating crap to achieve that though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think we could reasonably argue that the world would be better off without humans as a species, we rape the environment raw, destroy species and are slowly destroying our own biosphere.. Humanity causes the vast majority of the world's problems, and Greer places this on men as they are generally speaking the ruling gender. Its a fair point in the same way I can say all grown ups cause the worlds problems, or all politicians, but isn't constructive, it's just destructive to think like that, because the problems would exist regardless.

    I read a few of Greer's articles last night and tbh, she just wants to have an opinion on anything. She even had a rant about the colour pink. If people want to get offended by something it's fairly easy to. I will pick up the female eunach when I get a chance but I'm not too fond of her whiny accusative writing style, she just has to moan about something :p (she said a friend of hers died of cancer, and the only reason she had an open coffin was because she must have been furious at them all and wanted to put them through the nastiness of seeing the corpse... how sweet)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    Well to be fair Jim, I wasn't the one that suggested Greer as good reading on the issue of feminism. My stnce on that articale was pretty clear, Namaste's wasn't. What has the article got to do with the idea of equality - nothing. It's rant about the evils of men.


    An Namaste I can accept that a lot of the worlds troubles in recent history were caused by white men, but as you say it's because they're that have generally held the power to create them. It's has noting to do with being white though, or having a penis.

    I don't think many woudl disagree with the statement that Muslims represent the biggest terrorist threat in the world today, but that's not an excuse to bash muslims in general?

    I don't have an issue with equality of the sexes. You don't need to spout man hating crap to achieve that though.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    Just because nine out of ten people think that a yam is a casava, does not make a yam a casava. Just because a few people use casva in a dish which traditionally used yam, does not make a yam a casava.

    No, you're quite right, it isn't. That wasn't what I said though, I never said that it was right that the general public's perception of the word Feminism is that the movement is anti-men. I just said that this is how the word is viewed, which might go some way to explain why people might want to distance themselves from it. I'm not arguing about how things should be, I'm suggesting how things are.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    Yes I would. Have you as much in depth and extensive knowledge of Greer as you do on the Beauty Myth?

    I've read the Female Eunoch and various articles of hers.
    Do explain...

    Equality of opportunity already exists across the Western world - so any existing imbalances between pay, positions in certain professions and so on must be, to those who believe a 50/50 split can be the only sign of equality, evidence of discrimination and patriarchal conspiracy. And the consequence of that false deduction is state intervention, positive discrimination along with a 'radical restructuring' of society - in other words, an attempt to socially engineer humanity.

    That's what you imply when you talk about gender being 'socially constructed'.
    Please do go on and explain why she is an idiot. And I recommended it because it's one of the more famous books.

    Anyone who describes themselves as an 'anarcho-communist' is an idiot by default.

    Because you can be a feminist and a misandrist, just like you can be a socialist and a racist. Some feminists hate men, some will also be racist, or anti-Semetic. Just because a woman is a feminist, does not make her a misandrist, just like if you're a misandrist, that doesn't make you a feminist.

    But, National Socialism aside, just about every socialist movement and socialist individual is strenuously opposed to racism - it is something which goes against the grain ideologically. The same can't be said for feminism - the fact that man-hating has become common and accepted without the slightest thought or condemnation from most within the feminist movement (anyone who doubts this just needs to do a little research) demonstrates this.

    Which movement? You being an expert on feminism would obviously understand that there have been several movements for the liberation of women and that there continue to be movements for this aim. No two movements are the same, other than they are in the interests of women's emancipation.

    You're evading the point.
    That is the common denominator. And which movement was specifically misandristic?

    What about the feminists who say that the male population needs to be reduced to a 'managable level'? Do they believe in equality? or that a false rape claim can be beneficial? that men are 'freaks of nature' and that all men are either rapists or potential rapists? that 'man-hating is a viable political act'?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    But ignoring the biological determinist argument that it is genetic, it is more likely that it has to do with power relations than anything.

    No-one believes in biological determinism, but you believe in social determinism.
    The world was fucked up by white men and it continues to be fucked up by (mostly) white men, or dictators that white men are supporting or helped to put in to power.

    Ah that's right, it's white men to blame. :rolleyes:

    The world's always been fucked up and only a fool would deny it. Not unless you believe in the idiocy that humans were peaceful and egalitarian pre-civilisation, which seems to be what you're implying?
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    Spliffie wrote: »
    Equality of opportunity already exists across the Western world - so any existing imbalances between pay, positions in certain professions and so on must be, to those who believe a 50/50 split can be the only sign of equality, evidence of discrimination and patriarchal conspiracy.
    Yes, it is evidence of discrimination.
    Anyone who describes themselves as an 'anarcho-communist' is an idiot by default.
    Why?
    But, National Socialism aside, just about every socialist movement and socialist individual is strenuously opposed to racism - it is something which goes against the grain ideologically. The same can't be said for feminism - the fact that man-hating has become common and accepted without the slightest thought or condemnation from most within the feminist movement (anyone who doubts this just needs to do a little research) demonstrates this.
    For somebody who claims to know so much, you have displayed very little knowledge of what feminism is, beyond what could be found on Wikipedia.

    Where are all these man hating feminists? Seriously?

    I think I've met one, in my entire life.

    What about the feminists who say that the male population needs to be reduced to a 'managable level'? Do they believe in equality? or that a false rape claim can be beneficial? that men are 'freaks of nature' and that all men are either rapists or potential rapists? that 'man-hating is a viable political act'?
    So what? That's only a couple.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Spliffie wrote: »
    Ah that's right, it's white men to blame. :rolleyes:

    The world's always been fucked up and only a fool would deny it. Not unless you believe in the idiocy that humans were peaceful and egalitarian pre-civilisation, which seems to be what you're implying?
    No, it is not white men to blame, but it is mostly white men who are the perpetrators and who have been for quite some time.

    To deny that would be pretty ignorant, no?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Spliffie wrote: »
    No-one believes in biological determinism, but you believe in social determinism.

    How so?
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    Skive wrote: »
    Well to be fair Jim, I wasn't the one that suggested Greer as good reading on the issue of feminism.

    Why shouldn't she be read?

    I've seen Greer speak and spoken to her... I found her quite cold and snobby to be fair, but just because you disagree with a stance does not mean that their work was not extremely important at the time.

    Also, her work was empowering for a lot of (middle class white) women, even if it may seem dated now and if she has controversial views.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    Why?

    Might have something to do with the fact that Communists believe it is the States function to serve the interests of the people whereas Anarchists don't believe there should be a State in the first place.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    No, it is not white men to blame, but it is mostly white men who are the perpetrators and who have been for quite some time.

    To deny that would be pretty ignorant, no?

    What is there to prove by saying that? White men are also behind some of the greatest inventions and cures to disease that have saved millions. Will we give them a pat on the back for that?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    What is there to prove by saying that? White men are also behind some of the greatest inventions and cures to disease that have saved millions. Will we give them a pat on the back for that?
    :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    :rolleyes:

    Great response, well done. :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Great response, well done. :thumb:

    Did you even read what I wrote?

    Follow the thread innit.

    I'm not attacking white men as a group, so why bother defending white men as a group?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    I'm not attacking white men as a group, so why bother defending white men as a group?
    Namaste wrote: »
    The world was fucked up by white men and it continues to be fucked up by (mostly) white men, or dictators that white men are supporting or helped to put in to power. Increasingly, in a few countries women are gaining more control, but one fact still remains...

    Why bring them up then? I didn't defend them either, read my post.
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