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Should these three really go together?
Anyways, she should be able to guarantee that it wont happen again if she is serious about you. If she cannot, you really need to question her intentions.
Best of luck!
But keep things up with your mates, your work, other parts of your life - don't be too dependent on her, however much you love her, because chances are she's going to hurt you big time and then you'll need other people to lean on and other things to throw yourself into.
You have a choice...go out with her but carry on hearing about/worrying about her getting off with other blokes (After all she has said she can't promise she won't)
or
Finish with her and get on with your life without her.
If you can't do the second thing then you're going to have to do the first and accept it and stop moaning!
You know what I think you should do - it may be difficult but this girl is being a twat and tragging you down with her.
Plus...do you really want to be in a relationship that turns you into some kind of mad stalker who drives round for hours trying to find her and sends his mates out to keep an eye on her?
This is not what haveing a relationship is about!