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Someone early asked about doing it without condoms,and if its better..But most of you said yes!
DO guys still enjoy it WITH them?
DO guys still enjoy it WITH them?
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and the added bonus of not wanting to be a teenage father helps out as well.:cool:
Yeeeeeah
Most of the lads i know dont like it and arent fussed about the above for some reason. Probably cos they know they can run fast.
Although like Harmless said at least they have the bonus of knowing they've been safe.
But I LOVE the sensation of my gf putting one on me
I thought the whole point of doing it was because of the feeling!!
If it feels quite shit, then yeah i'm bothered about what it feels like!
I have a long term girlfriend who is on the pill and we tend to not use a condom, which is great! But, for instance, if need be that i have to wear one (like, if she has been sick recently or has accidently missed the deadline for taking the pill on a specific day, then i wear one. I don't like them, takes away a lot of the feeling, a lot of the pleasure, a lot of the enjoyment for me, but i still wear one...
moo
Im speaking as a married mum, so I dont tom about and hubby dont tom about
Without is deffinately best
But if youre in a new relationship, have several partners, are not on the pill etc etc
USE CONDOMS EVERY TIME
Better be safe than sorry
Sex is definitely better without.
Mr_Wobble
I'm not a man, so I can't be sure, but even if it isn't as great during the bulk of sex...isn't the orgasm at the end just as mind-blowing with or without the condom??
I'm on the pill and I still use a condom every time. I'm not taking any chances. I'm 20 and the way I see it, getting pregnant now would no doubt ruin my future.
You must be the only person to point out std's/sti. The pill can protect you from so much.
But i think another big plus for using condoms is it holds all the mess so you don't have to end up sleeping in a wet patch!
I think anyone who has completely unprotected sex must be mad. If i wasn't in a long term relationship and i decided to have sex, the first thing that would be mentioned would be 'do you have a condom, because if not, there'll be no action for you tonight!' I'd rather be safe than sorry.
There are alot of underlying reasons to using or not using condoms, and every one has to be taken seriously.
I've not slept with my partner yet, but we've talked about it, and she's decided to go on the pill when we do, but i'll also wear a condom, afterall, I don't want to feel sorry for it later - remember, the pill is only 99% effective, and that 1% matters, trust me. The same goes for Condoms, they are only 97%, effective most of the time.
Other reasons such as STI's should only matter if you DON'T know your partners sexual history. Remember, STI's can be passed through oral sex as well, and not just through penetration.
So really, unless of course you are:
a) Disprespectful of your partner
and/or
b) Wanting to have a baby
Use as much protection as you can! It can't hurt, can it?
as I always say to those who dont like using them... I'm the godmother to any of those bastard children.
My boyfriend and I are completely faithful to each other and before we got intimate for the first time, we both went to the doctor and got tested for everything, including HIV.
Even still, we use condoms every time.
With worries of STDs out of the way, pregnancy is the worst of my fears. Not being able to raise a child the way it should be raised is my worst nightmare. If you knew my shit family you'd understand why.
Doesn't everyone believe this? Even the ones that are cheated on all the time?
Not trying to be rude but realistic. No one expects to be cheated on. What if your b/f did??
lol - somethings you just cant make up!
I think there is too many people who stop using condoms in relationships and rely on the pill just because their partner and themselves have discussed sexual hostory! Is this really enough! No way! Even if i was on the pill i would only rely solely on that after both me and my partner had been tested for STDs.
In answer to the initial question, i do hate condoms and they take out the majority of my enjoyment and passion but alike most women, i'm not stimulated that much though intercourse anyway, more through foreplay so it doesnt make too much difference to me!