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I really don't think he would. We've discussed it and decided that we would tell the other one if we ever did. I know I can't rule out that he would, but if you knew him you'd understand. Even if he did, there's no doubt in my mind that he'd tell me. He feels guilty if he even looks at another girl.
But for one night stands, beginning of rel's etc they are an essential. Always carry them around with me so I don't have to rely on guys. Just means I can always be safe as well. And you never know when I'm not gonna want the mess with my fella anyways.
No offence but you are being incredibly naive.
People DO cheat, unfortunately.
If it's your first serious partner then it's harder to accept that it could happen. But it's the same for everyone.
When people cheat they're unlikely to tell right away, because they'd prefer to see if they could get away with it and keep the relationship going.
Sad.... But it happens.
:yes: :yes:
As for Kazbo's comment about her guys rarely cumming when wearing a condom. . . I find that a bit odd. Are they drunk?
I am unable to take the pill, but due to recent doctor ordered surgery don't have to rely on it or condoms for birth control anymore. Prior to and for the last 15 years my husband and I used condoms. He never had any trouble reaching orgasm.
I'm thankful to be in a monogamous relationship, but if and when the need would arise to go elsewhere. . . I'll be packing condoms.
If a guy refuses to wear one then you should tell him to f*** off
I don't like using one, but I know I have to, so it's not really an issue.
You go Essemm. . .. .:)
Ditto to that!!!:)
I'm only talking about my current fella there. But neither of us like the things, we trust each other and so are happy to go without now. Some can some can't. I knowa lot of mates who have never reached orgasm using condoms. I think a lot of it depends on how they're used to. My fella's used to it without them, as are my mates who have troubles.
but it's good to see you over here Jasmine....how are you after the op?
As previously stated, I as well as my husband didn't care for them either but as it was our only means of birth control due to not being able to use the pill, etc. he learned to use them. He wasn't "used" to them either - but if he wanted sex and didn't want a bunch of kids - he had no choice.
Thanks Kazbo - nice to see you too. I'm recuperating but it's taking much longer than originally anticipated. When you've geared yourself for 3 weeks down time and it turns into 8 because of complications. . . but I should have expected it - if it's gonna happen. . . it happens to ME.
Very true, and I'm sure if I was in the same position as you he would learn to put up with them, as would I. But being on the pill I don't feel the need when I trust him and so on. Just saves the fathing and lack on spontinuity condoms can cause.
Huggles....hope there's no further complications hun.
waste of space really isn't it? lol.
essemm, go you, being all assertive....woo! :thumb:
Then we'd have to live with the consquences of our actions, and take personal responsibilty for it, if an STI was caught.
ive had sex both with and without a condom :shocking: and personally i couldnt really tell the difference apart from there was less friction with one on but wiht a condom on there is MUCh less of a worry! after tryin it both ways i would say wear the condom...the feeling may not be as good but you wont have lil baby you's running round ya feet in 9months! I mean say you didnt wear one but promised 2 pull out when u came and u fogot coz u were so lost in the great feeling...how would you feel? ... :banghead:...exactly! like that!
Think about it!
Antalya xxx :wave: