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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 06.04.26
Billie
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Hey Everyone!
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good morning everyone. how is everyone?
Hey im ok thanks, you?
yeah im ok too.
went to tree hoppers (zip world) it was terrifying but so fun
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Glad You are, have you been in college recently?
Im feeling upset again, I think just tomorrow is just an especially cold start having an extra day off and back to my 6am wake up again
no, easter break.
Hello everyone how is it going
@River That sounds like such an unforgettable experience, I’m not sure I’d be brave enough to go but I can imagine the adrenaline rush. Would you visit again?
@Redemption I am sorry to hear that, that sounds like a very difficult transition into a really early 6am start especially when it’s cold and everything just feels more heavy. Perhaps you could do something nice for yourself this evening so the morning feels a bit easier to endure. It’s okay to take things one step at a time. You are doing your best and that is more than enough.
I forgot, yh my uncle does tutoring for students and hes doing lessons during the days whilst he normally does evenings. I hope you're enjoying your time off anyway
Thank yiu @Ech0 , im not really sure what to say besides that, youre so helpful and amazing. You're an amazing supporter here. Do you have any suggestions for anything nice ? Im very limited tbh. Are you feeling any better ?
thanks
@Redemption Much appreciated, guess I’m okay thanks for asking.
maybe something like listening to music,reading a good book, making a nice meal or drink, watching some TV, playing a game, listening to a podcast, going for a walk, sketching, journaling, meditation, whatever works for you.
If there's anything we can support you with too we are always here @Ech0 , thank you for them suggestions, they are great
Im feeling upset and scared just times going fast and the pressure us coming to have life sorted by certain ages and times are coming where I'll age out of different services
Ive decided Im leaving this student forum, people keep being rude to me, I've not always been the best myself, done and said baad stuff but I think I've been fine recently. Nothing gets done about these rude people and it feels like its 1 rule for 1 and 1 for the other.
That sounds like a positive thing to do for yourself @Redemption removing yourself from a situation where you feel you arn't being treated fairly is a good idea.
Thank you @Verity , you're right like Im done with that forum and the whole community.
Im gonna have to sell my fiesta probably
Hey @Redemption, I hear that you're feeling like you'll have to sell your car. How come you feel you need to sell it, and how do you feel about that?
bro i do not recommend pulling all nighters even when its easter break. theres still 2-3 hours left until bedtime. maybe more if my shitty neighbour plays music at night (ive contacted the council about it and nothing much was done). my neighbour is the reason i stayed all night in the first place cause he played music until 11:30pm, sometimes even later until 11:45pm to midnight. and by the time i was tired it was too late to go to sleep (4am). so yeah. i feel like a zombie right now lol. also my neighbour does this on school days too so im losing precious sleep because of it.
Its just space @Azziman
Im upset again about this thing then on top of this, a guy is pressuring to buy a car, too he seems a bit cagey might have to call the police on him, my overthinking is here too from a separate thing, it hard to get a break even though theres lesser issues , thers still a few issues there. I think I'm getting there though.
This forum has caused me partly too smack my phone and I broke my finger print sensor for it, Im tempted to bill the community team for the repair because they dont help, to be honest they are on the rude people's side. I've been bad too, Im not just going to play the victim but I can't even announce Im taking a break or leaving without most members being rude, like Im so done with the community
I've been upset about what is going on with the community and issues offline, I feel like I cant get on with anyone and I question myself because I seem to not get on and fall out with people etc. It's just Im always gonna defend myself as much as possible unless I know I was fully in the wrong. I was going to gradually leave the forum maybe even stick by for some parts but I've decided Im going to leave quietly with immediate affect, no drama and with a bit of respect with some positives I've had even though they've been a bit lesser.
Hey @Redemption that pile up of issues must be stressful and breaking your phone is not what you need right now, I'm sorry you have gone through this. How are you feeling today. This person pressuring you into a buying a car does sound strange, it's good you know you not to make any decisions that you arn't sure about. How are you feeling today?
Thank you so much @Verity I'm feeling ok just fed up with it all. Its not me whos buying the car just my cousin, I just was getting asked a lot for advice from them on it, I have given some but don't wanna be blamed if anything doesn't go wrong because its mostly their responsibility on buying the car. I think once I get these niggles sorted ill be ok, Im a lot better than I was a while ago.
I've had another issue from someone on the football group chat. They needed people for tomorrow as they're short so I said Id maybe be up to go as long as I don't get tripped over like last week, this guy legit tripped me up but his friend is defending him accusing me of lying asking me where's my injuries are, which I none so he's accusing me of lying, he said "because he didn't do it you did he" , he did trip me, I never claimed to have injuries, just saying relax a bit and it's getting a bit heated. I don't wanna fall out with loads of people but I'm always going to defend myself and my part, hes just arguing with me. I don't know what this guy thinks hes playing at.
Everything is going wrong