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  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    Maybe I’m just like my parents and they is nothing I can do about it I tried
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    And everyone just tell me to forget him and let go ok what about the thoughts I’m so tired and I’m done I just want to go but then I don’t but what is the point anymore
  • LeylaLeyla Community Manager Posts: 421 Blazin' It
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13

    I hear so many different aspects and thoughts swirling around about this situation, and it really feels overwhelming. I wonder where your head is at today in regards to those suicidal feelings and not feeling entirely safe with your parents sometimes?

    You deserve to be heard, and we are here and listening!
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I’m ok but I just don’t really have any distractions to help me especially when I’m mad
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I’m just trying to stay calm today and not do anything
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I just need to get through this couple of days before I see my clinical psychologist
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I just didn’t really understand what any of it meant as I had it a couple times where my head said I didn’t love him but I knew I did I don’t really want to put someone through that again
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    A lot happened but what do I do
    Because I’m mad I’m scared
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    And that thought came back like 3 times
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I’m actually not doing well I’m never going to fall in love again that’s on my mind
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I just don’t know if I should let go
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I just want to move on but it is just the thoughts
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I’ve had panic attacks please just help I can’t take it anymore
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,473 Boards Champion
    I’ve had panic attacks please just help I can’t take it anymore

    @LolaPumpkin13 hey, i know that panic attacks are scary, so let's try and get through them first, and then talk a bit about things after shall we. So, let's try first of all, breathing deep breathes in, then deep breathes out, and repeat that for about 30 seconds okay.
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    I can’t take it anymore
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,473 Boards Champion
    I can’t take it anymore

    @LolaPumpkin13 I know it's really crushing and overwhelming, and i know how it feels to be at rock bottom, having been there myself, feeling unable to really take it anymore, but it want to just assure you that feeling at rock bottom isn't forever. It might seem like there isn't any light at the end of the tunnel, but there is, it's just hard to see sometimes, from where you are.

    Grief (including grief over your relationship) is something that is difficult to overcome. It's something that people learn to live alongside if that makes sense rather than erase it. And it does become more and more manageable as time goes on thankfully. It's just about trying to hold on during those particularly hard times, and those low points.

    I know i've mentioned this before, but have you considered talking to Kelly's heroes possibly? I know you mentioned you talked to shout and a few others, but from personal experience when i couldn't take it anymore, Kelly's Heroes really did help me. I'll just leave the link for you if you wanted to give it a try: https://kellysheroes.org.uk/services/live-chat/
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    Thank you I will have a look
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    Maybe I will never find love against
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 90 Budding Regular
    It is effecting my whole life
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