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  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    eylah wrote: »
    tired 😴

    Same
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    did y’all hear abt the lfc player who’s passed away? how sad 💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    eylah wrote: »
    did y’all hear abt the lfc player who’s passed away? how sad 💔

    I did , absolutely devastating 💔
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    did y’all hear abt the lfc player who’s passed away? how sad 💔

    I did , absolutely devastating 💔

    it rly is 💔💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    did y’all hear abt the lfc player who’s passed away? how sad 💔

    I did , absolutely devastating 💔

    it rly is 💔💔

    He was only 28 too, obviously devastating for any age but so so young , its so horrible
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    did y’all hear abt the lfc player who’s passed away? how sad 💔

    I did , absolutely devastating 💔

    it rly is 💔💔

    He was only 28 too, obviously devastating for any age but so so young , its so horrible

    his brother was 25 too 💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    did y’all hear abt the lfc player who’s passed away? how sad 💔

    I did , absolutely devastating 💔

    it rly is 💔💔

    He was only 28 too, obviously devastating for any age but so so young , its so horrible

    his brother was 25 too 💔

    💔 extremely devastating and he just got married
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    did y’all hear abt the lfc player who’s passed away? how sad 💔

    I did , absolutely devastating 💔

    it rly is 💔💔

    He was only 28 too, obviously devastating for any age but so so young , its so horrible

    his brother was 25 too 💔

    💔 extremely devastating and he just got married

    may they both rest in peace. 🕊️💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,593 The Mix Elder
    I’d forgot about my aerial class lol
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,061 Boards Guru
    counting the days until my blood donation appointment
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    hey @toffuna101 hru? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,061 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    hey @toffuna101 hru? <3

    im actually ok today thanks for asking
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    oh that’s gd to hear! <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    @Redemption here to chat bro?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    @eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    @Redemption here to chat bro?

    Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,593 The Mix Elder
    I’m scared
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    @eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?

    .. im amazing. (:
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    edited July 3
    Redemption wrote: »
    @Redemption here to chat bro?

    Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?

    @Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off if this isn't resolved. I dropped a pm to them expressing my issues on here and hopefully it gets sorted. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?

    I also heard someone was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.
    Post edited by DonnerKebab on
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    I’m scared

    @River I'm here to talk friend about anything you want to
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,593 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab really nervous about this new medication:(
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?

    .. im amazing. (:

    @eylah i know you too well my favourite twat in the world <3 .

    What's on your mind if your comfortable sharing it? I'm here for you.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab really nervous about this new medication:(

    @River it's understandable. When i go to a new GP eventually, they're gonna probably put me on a dopamine agonist and oxcytin supplements, which is gonna change me eventually. It'll make me more impulsive, make me more attached and all sorts based on the side effects which scares me too, which is why i've been putting off going.

    It's scary, but it's needed. It's worth a try, and if it doesn't work, you can always go off them. It's about trying to find the right balance and mix. It's normal to be scared.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?

    .. im amazing. (:

    @eylah i know you too well my favourite twat in the world <3 .

    What's on your mind if your comfortable sharing it? I'm here for you.
    im struggling rly bad with flashbacks abt what happened to me and i cant get over it. i hate myself i hate my life. its so hard 💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    edited July 3
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    Post edited by Redemption on
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?

    .. im amazing. (:

    @eylah i know you too well my favourite twat in the world <3 .

    What's on your mind if your comfortable sharing it? I'm here for you.
    im struggling rly bad with flashbacks abt what happened to me and i cant get over it. i hate myself i hate my life. its so hard 💔

    @eylah I know it's so so hard for you right now, and i'm so sorry your going through all of this. It must be rough with flashbacks and reliving it all. I wish i could just give you a hug and make them all stop, but i can't. You shouldn't hate yourself eylah, you're a gem of a person whose been through hell and did nothing wrong. It's okay to not get over it. These things aren't the sorts of stuff people just get over.

    Tw trafficking
    As i mentioned, i was trafficked at 4. I've only started to come to terms with that and have only started to feel anything other than numbness 19 years later.

    Trauma isn't the sort of stuff that you simply get over, and there's no timeline for it. I'm sending you a massive hug now to let you know you're not alone <3

    It's okay to hate where your life currently is at and what you've been through, and where you currently are situationally, but it's never okay to hate yourself. You're a gem, and even when a gem covered in muck (where you currently are situationally) and dirt (what you've been through and suffered through), that gem is still precious and valuable. You are that gem, put through bad circumstances, suffering through trauma, but you're still as valuable as you've always been, and still deserving of that same love and care.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    I hope you aren't angry with me @DonnerKebab
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    edited July 3
    im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebab <3 you deserved none of what happened to you and you deserve a happy life. im so sry i rly am <3

    it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself. <3

    im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    @Redemption here to chat bro?

    Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?

    @Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?

    I also heard benny was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.

    @DonnerKebab its great you want to help the member and everything, I’m sorry mate I don't want to get in trouble for talking about it too much here though, i hope I don't sound selfish or not disappointing you from that but I understand 1 million percent and everything. I know mostly what you're angry about that its unfair. I think its just he thought you were taking it out on the mods and tbh its definitely not to do with them, like us they have to make sure people follow the rules, I fully get and its understandable completely you're angry and want to rant, I fully get you. It's just he didn't want to bring the mods into it

    @Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    @Redemption here to chat bro?

    Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?

    @Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?

    I also heard benny was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.

    @DonnerKebab its great you want to help the member and everything, I’m sorry mate I don't want to get in trouble for talking about it too much here though, i hope I don't sound selfish or not disappointing you from that but I understand 1 million percent and everything. I know mostly what you're angry about that its unfair. I think its just he thought you were taking it out on the mods and tbh its definitely not to do with them, like us they have to make sure people follow the rules, I fully get and its understandable completely you're angry and want to rant, I fully get you. It's just he didn't want to bring the mods into it

    @Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.

    was this tonight? <3 im so sry this has happened.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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