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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    I hope you aren't angry with me @DonnerKebab

    @Redemption I'm not angry, you're an awesome guy and one of the few people who i would actually always allow to speak on my behalf whenever you ever wanted to. I trust you a lot mate, i have a huge amount of respect for you and what you've fought through, and even if we disagree on this point, it changes nothing that you're still my brother from another mother. I said before, you could commit warcrimes and you'd still be my brother on here.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebab <3 you deserved none of what happened to you and you deserve a happy life. im so sry i rly am <3

    it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself. <3

    im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan <3

    @eylah you don't ever have to worry about triggering me. I actually am lucky enough or unlucky enough i guess to have been emotionally hardened over the years to the point where nothing triggers me at all. Just know, i'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk about it.

    And you aren't weak eylah, you're the opposite. You are strong. You've never let that light in you be extinguished ever, throughout all that pain, you've remained that kind soul, without fail. That is the strongest thing i've ever seen, and i'm so proud to call you my friend. It's why your my favourite twat in the world. <3

  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebab <3 you deserved none of what happened to you and you deserve a happy life. im so sry i rly am <3

    it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself. <3

    im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan <3

    @eylah you don't ever have to worry about triggering me. I actually am lucky enough or unlucky enough i guess to have been emotionally hardened over the years to the point where nothing triggers me at all. Just know, i'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk about it.

    And you aren't weak eylah, you're the opposite. You are strong. You've never let that light in you be extinguished ever, throughout all that pain, you've remained that kind soul, without fail. That is the strongest thing i've ever seen, and i'm so proud to call you my friend. It's why your my favourite twat in the world. <3

    might try sleep in a min but wanted to say how much i appreciate you and that i am am sending you so many hugs. and that you’re the best ever <3 thankyou so much for caring abt me <3.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    edited July 3
    eylah wrote: »
    @Redemption here to chat bro?

    Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?

    @Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?

    I also heard benny was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.

    @DonnerKebab its great you want to help the member and everything, I’m sorry mate I don't want to get in trouble for talking about it too much here though, i hope I don't sound selfish or not disappointing you from that but I understand 1 million percent and everything. I know mostly what you're angry about that its unfair. I think its just he thought you were taking it out on the mods and tbh its definitely not to do with them, like us they have to make sure people follow the rules, I fully get and its understandable completely you're angry and want to rant, I fully get you. It's just he didn't want to bring the mods into it

    @Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.

    was this tonight? <3 im so sry this has happened.

    @eylah a fair bit happened, but a friend of mine who i can't say due to the rules, got a 3 month ban, despite no community rule violations
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    @Redemption here to chat bro?

    Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?

    @Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?

    I also heard benny was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.

    @DonnerKebab its great you want to help the member and everything, I’m sorry mate I don't want to get in trouble for talking about it too much here though, i hope I don't sound selfish or not disappointing you from that but I understand 1 million percent and everything. I know mostly what you're angry about that its unfair. I think its just he thought you were taking it out on the mods and tbh its definitely not to do with them, like us they have to make sure people follow the rules, I fully get and its understandable completely you're angry and want to rant, I fully get you. It's just he didn't want to bring the mods into it

    @Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.

    was this tonight? <3 im so sry this has happened.

    @eylah a fair bit happened, but somebody we know who i can't say due to the rules, got a 3 month ban, despite no community rule violations, just as a response to feedback they gave and they were told the mix isn't for them right now. I'm in contact via email with them, and i know everything, and the person in question told me i can say what's happening to her if i want, and she gives me permission to talk about it. They claimed it was a break, but it wasn't, and i saw it. I raised the issue, it was deleted and i asked why, and a certain somebody in the chat started saying i was being agro, rude and disrespectful, i told him to name a single example which he couldn't, and he kept going on telling me it wasn't the place to talk about it (not a mod, they were lovely despite the circumstances, but somebody in the chat), and then when i left, he decided to speak on my behalf. Rude as anything.

    i think i know who you’re on abt. you’re never rude or trying to cause shit so idk why he would say that. im so sry <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Jack25Jack25 Posts: 28 Boards Initiate
    edited July 3
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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    edited July 3
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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    edited July 3
    @Jack25 you're right jack. I'll talk to the mix about it, because i was personally insulted by the fact that the person in question thought to speak on my behalf to countermand me behind my back, then thought to accuse me of being agro, and then thought to accuse me of being rude yet have no evidence to back it up nor name anything. I'll take it up with the mix and the person in question in private, you are a decent chap mate.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,593 The Mix Elder
    Hi :(
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    .😴😴😴💀💀💀💀
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    edited July 3
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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    Hi :(

    @River hi river, here to talk if you want to
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    .😴😴😴💀💀💀💀

    @eylah i'm guessing that's short for not being able to sleep or it hurting in your sleep from the sunburn? Sorry, i'm useless at interpreting emoji's
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebab <3 you deserved none of what happened to you and you deserve a happy life. im so sry i rly am <3

    it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself. <3

    im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan <3

    @eylah you don't ever have to worry about triggering me. I actually am lucky enough or unlucky enough i guess to have been emotionally hardened over the years to the point where nothing triggers me at all. Just know, i'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk about it.

    And you aren't weak eylah, you're the opposite. You are strong. You've never let that light in you be extinguished ever, throughout all that pain, you've remained that kind soul, without fail. That is the strongest thing i've ever seen, and i'm so proud to call you my friend. It's why your my favourite twat in the world. <3

    thankyou so much <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    edited July 3
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    .😴😴😴💀💀💀💀

    @eylah i'm guessing that's short for not being able to sleep or it hurting in your sleep from the sunburn? Sorry, i'm useless at interpreting emoji's

    you got it correct aha i tried closing my eyes for 5 seconds then gave up so im awake now :lol:
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    edited July 3
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  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    All ok @DonnerKebab ?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    edited July 3
    fuck sake
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    there’s a spider
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    All ok @DonnerKebab ?

    @Redemption all good bro. I'm gonna take it up with the mix and the person in question, privately because that just just straight up disrespect thinking he had the right to speak on my behalf and countermand whatever i was saying, or apologise for me. It was bad enough he slandered me with accusations, then he talks crap behind my back when i left for a short while. I won't sink to his level. You don't have to agree with me on this btw redemption, you're still my brother either way.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    there’s a spider

    @eylah oh, i hate spiders. Have you got maybe a paper or something to slide under it and throw it a distance away?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    @DonnerKebab im crying 😫💀🤣

    i hate the fuckers

    im gonna go sleep in the bathroom if it comes near me 🤣🤣
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab im crying 😫💀🤣

    i hate the fuckers

    im gonna go sleep in the bathroom if it comes near me 🤣🤣

    @eylah it might be better than to try and use a rolled up paper to nudge it away if you can then. Either that or abandon ship 😂😂😂
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    Thanks a lot @DonnerKebab hopefully everything gets sorted out
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,422 Legendary Poster
    edited July 3
    eylah wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab im crying 😫💀🤣

    i hate the fuckers

    im gonna go sleep in the bathroom if it comes near me 🤣🤣

    @eylah it might be better than to try and use a rolled up paper to nudge it away if you can then. Either that or abandon ship 😂😂😂

    im abandoning ship fuck this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 off to the bathroom i go 🤣
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,556 Extreme Poster
    edited July 3
    Thanks a lot @DonnerKebab hopefully everything gets sorted out

    @Redemption hopefully. I want this to work out, and I want my friend back on here because she doesn't deserve any of this and i think they messed up. It can be fixed and it can be worked out, but what there doing isn't helping anybody.

    And i fully intend to push the matter of the disrespect in support chat. The person in question (not the mods, they were lovely, just in a difficult place which i understand) was as rude as can be, spoke for me behind my back countermanding me and thought to make several accusations of slander, which he couldn't back up which i won't tolerate. I took personal offence to the person in question.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    edited July 3
    @DonnerKebab like I keep saying Im just so overwhelmed, I'm so nervous about my meeting tomorrow, I have to get up catch a bus into city centre, I shouldn't even be moaning about that, loads of people including kids do it now issue but I just have so overwhelmed recently, not sleeping properly, stressing, feeling so uncertain, drowning in stress, low self-esteem then little fustrating things, I feel responsibilities have been dumped on me all at once too, I feel alone, a lot of this is stuff that I have been feeling for so so long, it's really tough, I felt stuck in a rut I have had dark thoughts at times, growing up I have worried about my future and people doubting me, setbacks, its still not over yet. It's hard af sometimes, its such a battle. I'm sorry Im so repetitive like a broken record
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,641 The Mix Elder
    I understand @DonnerKebab mate
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