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Same
I did , absolutely devastating 💔
it rly is 💔💔
He was only 28 too, obviously devastating for any age but so so young , its so horrible
his brother was 25 too 💔
💔 extremely devastating and he just got married
may they both rest in peace. 🕊️💔
im actually ok today thanks for asking
Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?
.. im amazing. (:
@Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off if this isn't resolved. I dropped a pm to them expressing my issues on here and hopefully it gets sorted. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?
I also heard someone was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.
@River I'm here to talk friend about anything you want to
@eylah i know you too well my favourite twat in the world
What's on your mind if your comfortable sharing it? I'm here for you.
@River it's understandable. When i go to a new GP eventually, they're gonna probably put me on a dopamine agonist and oxcytin supplements, which is gonna change me eventually. It'll make me more impulsive, make me more attached and all sorts based on the side effects which scares me too, which is why i've been putting off going.
It's scary, but it's needed. It's worth a try, and if it doesn't work, you can always go off them. It's about trying to find the right balance and mix. It's normal to be scared.
@eylah I know it's so so hard for you right now, and i'm so sorry your going through all of this. It must be rough with flashbacks and reliving it all. I wish i could just give you a hug and make them all stop, but i can't. You shouldn't hate yourself eylah, you're a gem of a person whose been through hell and did nothing wrong. It's okay to not get over it. These things aren't the sorts of stuff people just get over.
Tw trafficking
Trauma isn't the sort of stuff that you simply get over, and there's no timeline for it. I'm sending you a massive hug now to let you know you're not alone
It's okay to hate where your life currently is at and what you've been through, and where you currently are situationally, but it's never okay to hate yourself. You're a gem, and even when a gem covered in muck (where you currently are situationally) and dirt (what you've been through and suffered through), that gem is still precious and valuable. You are that gem, put through bad circumstances, suffering through trauma, but you're still as valuable as you've always been, and still deserving of that same love and care.
it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself.
im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan
@Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.
was this tonight?