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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,450 Community Veteran
    Good I’m glad to hear it @toffuna101 im proud of you <3
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    finally theyre breaking confidentiality...

    i know this is scary but im sending you so many hugs 🫂 im not going anywhere! i’ll stay up for as long as you need. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    are they calling an ambulance for you?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    are they calling an ambulance for you?

    yep
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    okay that’s gd! i hope the ambulance wont be long!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    okay that’s gd! i hope the ambulance wont be long!

    i should be put on a high category anyways because of my risk so they should come pretty quickly.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    well you can keep chatting to us until the ambulance gets there then when you go to hospital you can keep texting us <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,385 Wise Owl
    @toffuna101 like eylah said, we're here for you. I'll even stay up the whole time your in the A&E waiting line. Remember to get ready for A&E. Maybe a few coins or your card for a little snack and drink while you're there, and maybe a book if you don't have your phone.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,450 Community Veteran
    @toffuna101 maybe take a blanket and comfy clothes and also let an adult know obviously
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    before the ambulance gets there you’re going to need to wake up your dad. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    well you can keep chatting to us until the ambulance gets there then when you go to hospital you can keep texting us <3

    alright.
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 like eylah said, we're here for you. I'll even stay up the whole time your in the A&E waiting line. Remember to get ready for A&E. Maybe a few coins or your card for a little snack and drink while you're there, and maybe a book if you don't have your phone.

    ill probably bring something with me yeah
    River wrote: »
    @toffuna101 maybe take a blanket and comfy clothes and also let an adult know obviously

    i will
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    you’re not alone in this we got you. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    is there anything you can do to distract yourself right now? <3 until you wait for the ambulance to turn up.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    before the ambulance gets there you’re going to need to wake up your dad. <3

    yeah, i dont know what his reaction will be though. he might be mad that i requested for an ambulance.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    is there anything you can do to distract yourself right now? <3 until you wait for the ambulance to turn up.

    listen to music i guess
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    before the ambulance gets there you’re going to need to wake up your dad. <3

    yeah, i dont know what his reaction will be though. he might be mad that i requested for an ambulance.

    technically you didn’t request the ambulance they have a confidentiality policy where they have to call emergency services to keep you safe etc. so you can just say that when they turn up.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    sending you so many safe hugs 🫂 ( if ok!)
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,385 Wise Owl
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    before the ambulance gets there you’re going to need to wake up your dad. <3

    yeah, i dont know what his reaction will be though. he might be mad that i requested for an ambulance.

    @toffuna101 deny ever calling an ambulance and pin it all on childline being overzealous and trigger happy with calling emergency services.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    before the ambulance gets there you’re going to need to wake up your dad. <3

    yeah, i dont know what his reaction will be though. he might be mad that i requested for an ambulance.

    technically you didn’t request the ambulance they have a confidentiality policy where they have to call emergency services to keep you safe etc. so you can just say that when they turn up.

    ohh yeah true
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    sending you so many safe hugs 🫂 ( if ok!)

    im ok with them dont worry
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    im honestly so so proud of you @toffuna101 <3 i rly am! you took the brave step to reach out to childline even when things was getting even harder for you and you reached out for support! i know that mustn’t of been easy for you but im sat here smiling bc now you can get to hospital and be safe for the night until tmr morning <3. honestly you’re so strong <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    im honestly so so proud of you @toffuna101 <3 i rly am! you took the brave step to reach out to childline even when things was getting even harder for you and you reached out for support! i know that mustn’t of been easy for you but im sat here smiling bc now you can get to hospital and be safe for the night until tmr morning <3. honestly you’re so strong <3

    thank you so much <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,385 Wise Owl
    eylah wrote: »
    im honestly so so proud of you @toffuna101 <3 i rly am! you took the brave step to reach out to childline even when things was getting even harder for you and you reached out for support! i know that mustn’t of been easy for you but im sat here smiling bc now you can get to hospital and be safe for the night until tmr morning <3. honestly you’re so strong <3

    @eylah 100% agree eylah. Absolutely bravery. You are amazingly strong toffuna, i'm glad your safe and getting help.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im honestly so so proud of you @toffuna101 <3 i rly am! you took the brave step to reach out to childline even when things was getting even harder for you and you reached out for support! i know that mustn’t of been easy for you but im sat here smiling bc now you can get to hospital and be safe for the night until tmr morning <3. honestly you’re so strong <3

    thank you so much <3

    i know im a stranger over the screen but honestly you’ve done amazing! <3 i feel like a proud big sister ( weird ik lol ) but i hope the ambulance hurry’s up so they can give you the support & care you rightly deserve <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im honestly so so proud of you @toffuna101 <3 i rly am! you took the brave step to reach out to childline even when things was getting even harder for you and you reached out for support! i know that mustn’t of been easy for you but im sat here smiling bc now you can get to hospital and be safe for the night until tmr morning <3. honestly you’re so strong <3

    thank you so much <3

    i know im a stranger over the screen but honestly you’ve done amazing! <3 i feel like a proud big sister ( weird ik lol ) but i hope the ambulance hurry’s up so they can give you the support & care you rightly deserve <3

    honestly people on the mix care more about me than the camhs crisis team irl
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    you’re apart of the family @toffuna101 we always here for one another including you!! we don’t want you to suffer <3 we want you happy and to feel safe and happy.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    you’re apart of the family @toffuna101 we always here for one another including you!! we don’t want you to suffer <3 we want you happy and to feel safe and happy.

    thats good. i feel like i belong here.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,235 Legendary Poster
    i certainly care so much abt you <3 how are you doing now? how is everything? are you able to breathe okay etc? sounds silly but just making sure!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,385 Wise Owl
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    you’re apart of the family @toffuna101 we always here for one another including you!! we don’t want you to suffer <3 we want you happy and to feel safe and happy.

    thats good. i feel like i belong here.

    @toffuna101 you always belong here, and you always will. We care for you deeply. You are a gem of a person, and a brave one as well. Remember, bravery isn't about not being scared, it's about being scared but still pushing through in the face of that fear and worry. And reaching out for help must have been terrifying, but you did it anyway. That is bravery, never forget that. <3
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,982 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    i certainly care so much abt you <3 how are you doing now? how is everything? are you able to breathe okay etc? sounds silly but just making sure!

    i can breathe ok. im trying to distract myself by listening to music. the bad thoughts keep coming to me but the music is helping.
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