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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,385 Wise Owl
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    they weren't in the ambulance with me. and I misread the situation, I dont think I'm being put on 1-to-1 observation, I'm just being put under regular observation by one of the nurses. They're watching three people at once

    @toffuna101 i mean like when the ambulance showed up to your house. Were they aware and okay with it, or did they have some other reaction?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    @DonnerKebab they were ok with it yeah
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,385 Wise Owl
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab they were ok with it yeah

    @toffuna101 I'm glad to hear it.

    So now it's just a waiting game. I think given this is the third time in a short period, the hospital will recognise the severity of your mental state. Or at the very least, will be so inconvenienced they'll have to give more support and psychiatric care sooner, if only to reduce the numbers in A&E. It's sad, but they will have to help either way with more.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab they were ok with it yeah

    @toffuna101 I'm glad to hear it.

    So now it's just a waiting game. I think given this is the third time in a short period, the hospital will recognise the severity of your mental state. Or at the very least, will be so inconvenienced they'll have to give more support and psychiatric care sooner, if only to reduce the numbers in A&E. It's sad, but they will have to help either way with more.

    i got seen by the camhs crisis team and they said that they will keep me in hospital for now until they get more information
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster
    howre you now @toffuna101 ? sry I fell asleep.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    howre you now @toffuna101 ? sry I fell asleep.

    I feel safer now that I'm in A&E
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster

    I’m glad to hear that <3 what have they said so far? <3

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru

    they will keep me in here indefinitely until they find out more information. I need to speak to a doctor first.

  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster

    oh ok that’s gd @toffuna101 im glad you’re safe! <3

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru

    yeah, I hope camhs actually do something this time

  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster

    I’m rly hoping they do something for you bc you don’t deserve to suffer like you are. <3

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    I’m rly hoping they do something for you bc you don’t deserve to suffer like you are. <3

    yeah. apparently the ambulance services sent me to the wrong part of the A&E. I was meant to go to paediatrics (children's) A&E since the NHS Trust's hospital that I'm in has different policies to the one I went to the other two times recently. Its up to 18 in the hospital that I'm in right now whereas the hospital I usually go into its only up to 16. :skull:
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster
    how are things now? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    how are things now? <3

    Nevermind there was a mistake, im in the right section of the A&E. they're gonna discharge me today. I'm so done. I told them that I'm not safe at home but they still think its within my best interests to stay at home in the community
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    I'm safe here in A&E but not at home
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster
    I’m so sry that they’re not helping you but of course the system is letting so many ppl down. :( is there anyway you can contact your psychiatrist before the appt next month? ( I think it’s next month?) if I’m correct.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    I’m so sry that they’re not helping you but of course the system is letting so many ppl down. :( is there anyway you can contact your psychiatrist before the appt next month? ( I think it’s next month?) if I’m correct.

    my psychiatrist says the same thing that inpatient treatment is not within my best interests because they spoke to him too. So there's no point in getting an early appointment because he simply won't refer me to a psychiatric hospital voluntarily. I give up. I'm going to start refusing going to camhs appointments unless if they send me to a psychiatric hospital or at least refer me to the home treatment team again.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster
    if you don’t turn up though then you won’t get the support you deserve.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    if you don’t turn up though then you won’t get the support you deserve.

    they just say the same things anyways
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    it's almost 2pm and they still didn't give me lunch
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    nvm they gave me lunch
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    well it looks like im being discharged... my dad will pick me up at around 4pm. i hate this so much.
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 1,683 Extreme Poster
    Hi @toffuna101 , thank you so much for these messages.

    It sounds like the last 24 hours have been extremely distressing. And now being discharged is the very last thing that you wanted to happen. Have they mentioned anything about the home treatment team being able to support you?

    You're being so brave to share about this, and I can hear just how badly you're wanting to get support and keep safe. Can I ask, what is this evening looking like for you and how do you plan to keep safe when you're home around 4pm?

    We're all here for you as a Community and while I appreciate we can't offer practical solutions, we're here to listen and give emotional support. You're doing so well to talk about this.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster
    how’re you now? @toffuna101 can you keep yourself safe? you matter so much. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    Sian321 wrote: »
    Hi @toffuna101 , thank you so much for these messages.

    It sounds like the last 24 hours have been extremely distressing. And now being discharged is the very last thing that you wanted to happen. Have they mentioned anything about the home treatment team being able to support you?

    You're being so brave to share about this, and I can hear just how badly you're wanting to get support and keep safe. Can I ask, what is this evening looking like for you and how do you plan to keep safe when you're home around 4pm?

    We're all here for you as a Community and while I appreciate we can't offer practical solutions, we're here to listen and give emotional support. You're doing so well to talk about this.

    im home now and my dad's going to supervise me to keep me safe. they mentioned the home treatment team. the crisis team will talk to my main camhs team about it I guess. I don't know I just felt like going to A&E was pointless.
    eylah wrote: »
    how’re you now? @toffuna101 can you keep yourself safe? you matter so much. <3

    im just so tired. yes I think I'll be able to for now at least.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    I'm going to talk to my psychiatrist about referring me to go to a psychiatric hospital informally
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster
    sounds like a plan! <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    sounds like a plan! <3

    I just need to find a way to talk to him...
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,237 Legendary Poster
    have you got their number or email? you could search your camhs online and then you can maybe give them a ring.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,984 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    have you got their number or email? you could search your camhs online and then you can maybe give them a ring.

    i do, I'll give them a ring tomorrow
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